I'm a sex coach. real a relationship, dating and sex coach. I help people have better relationships. AND this shit happens all the time.

His issue wasn't with monogamy. His issue was with the fact that he was dating a "big girl" and felt he should have some "hotties" and playing around on the internet supported his delusion that he could do better. He thought fattie would be at home alone while he hooked up with models. Do you seriously think he'd have…

I think the point is that he doesn't owe it to her to be with her, so him suggesting that he may NOT want to be with her as things are isn't ipso facto a shitty thing. Basically a request to open up a monogamous relationship is asking to change the terms of the relationship—he's saying "I don't want to be in this…

Thanks for this. It explains so much WTF-esque behavior to me.

It's not that the situation couldn't happen it's how it's written about. No guy that is a macho dick enough to suggest such a thing in the first place then goes on to turn into a such a sniveling bitch about the situation. The one thing in particular is him writing the detailed account of the other guy and that…

Most guys who think they "settled" have no idea that they actually hit the jackpot for their attractiveness level until there is some sort of rude awakening.

not the closet, out of the basement.

Nina was also outspoken about the way white culture and white power structures erased the value of Black people's contributions to music and the artistic world. I always liked this quote from her, "There's no excuse for the young people not knowing who the heroes and heroines are or were," and I think it applies here.…

It's extremely ironic that they would choose Zoe Saldana to play Nina Simone. Nina was criticized for not fitting European standards of beauty, and the fact that someone would choose Zoe Saldana, a woman who meets the standard for racial minorities, just proves that society's perception of beauty hasn't progressed…

FLATIZZA IS AN ANAGRAM OF ILLUMINATI #STAYWOKE

Rihanna, sweetie, I don't know why you're so offended this girl went to prom in your ugly outfit. If she really wanted to insult you she would have shown up in a punching bag.

I don't even remember what breasts look like, anymore. Mine are the only real ones I even see. Thanks, media.

My husband is Korean and his uncle makes these little fried balls of dough with red bean paste in the middle that are just phenomenal.

And now neither of us is out on a limb alone. Anonymity + vulnerability=win.

no, you're right. red bean is good. author is a cracker.

I LOVE red bean stuff, especially buns and mochi. nom nom nom

I have spent WAY too many years getting faked out at the end of a huge Chinese banquet with "it's time for dessert!" to agree with you. No, a hot soup that contains red beans, mushrooms and - inexplicably - sugar is NOT a dessert. It is instead a torture cruelly visited upon children who sat patiently through twelve…

Because they were delicious and crispy and covered with a yummy honey vanilla sauce. They were so awesome I had to make myself stop at for or I'd have crawled under the table with the entire tray and growled at others who tried to take one. Mmmmmm, red bean mochi.

Sesame covered mochi filled with sweet red bean paste = yummy.

Red bean pastries are a delicious gift from the heavens. Most people who dislike them are expecting sugary fatty buttery death or chocolate when they bite into them, and are sorely disappointed. (I enjoy sugary fatty buttery death and chocolate too, just to put it out there.)