I'm going to take your comment as an honest inquiry since it suggests you are genuinely unfamiliar with the term. Rape culture doesn't describe a herd constituting every American male, that wanders the countryside assaulting every woman, child, and domesticated animal. It is a larger scale of the toxic work…

While I'm not one of those people who likes to pretend that someone who knowingly sleeps with a married person is totally innocent or will cry "SLUT SHAMING!!!" if someone dares to point out that choosing to enter into a sexual relationship with someone who's married is a selfish thing to do, I think it would be…

Just one more reason to go for Red Mango instead...

My dad is one of those listeners. My husband is in the military. Whenever he brings up birth control and how he shouldn't pay for it I simply remind him that he is already paying for millions of women's birth control via the military, including my own. I then make it even more personal and say how his tax dollars are…

Ah, the Katy Perry quote. It just gets me every time. You can be a feminist and love men, Katy. You can be a feminist and love women. Or kiteboarding. Or heated car seats. Or the smell of gardenias. Or rugby. Or monogrammed towels. Or karaoke nights. Or a nice, off-dry Gewurtztraminer. Or spray cheese. Or mild S&M. Or…

I know you just thought, "Hey, this reminds me of my fears. I'll share them to see if other people relate."

This. Whenever I come across people who refuse to date someone of the same race/ethnicity as them, I usually assume they must have a lot of baggage going on.

If you were a White guy, wouldn't you love Asians? You can use them to shame the "troublesome" minorities because if Asians can get into colleges and do well, why can't they? And their women come flocking to you while their men are of no threat to taking your women (thanks to stereotypes that YOU gleefully perpetrate).

Y'know what? She deserves what she gets, just for holding on to the Filipina dream of waking up to a blond pubic hair on her pillow...

I've wondered about where the desire for white guys among asian women comes from all my life. I have thought many of the same things you do. I think it just comes down to the pervasiveness of popular culture, especially asians who've grown up in the west. Once you're inundated with movies, pop music and magazine…

Well yeah — especially if folks aren't taking obvious steps to weed out the creepos, like simply leaving your "race" off your profile.

Nobody should be surprised at the results of this survey. White men have historically twisted Asian sexuality.

Sorry your friend is the typical banana who hate her race and wants to be white very bady. It is the same white men that instilled this self-hate in her that go for Asian women. White guys with Asian fetishes are the worst racists.

Yeah, she deserves no sympathy because of her "No Asian Men" policy. I honestly believe that so many Asian women are choosing white men that it is becoming unreasonable to expect white people to not feel superior to Asians.

"Asian women are raised to like white men." When you phrase it like that, you absolve Asian women of all responsibility. It seems so strange how people will condemn white men as creeps with Asian fetishes, while Asian women with strong preferences for white men are left comparitively off the hook.

what is even sadder is how model minority theme is being used here which only adds to the black and non-black binary thats already in use. The Zimmerman-Trayvon trope is becoming a stronger reality among the racialized minorities its more obvious in east Asians communities. In a matter of time certain Asian groups…

The study isn't about what mental conditions are popular on the site, it's what races are. It seems like you're the one trying to 'steal the show'.

Online dating can make you feel very uncomfortable about yourself. I'm a white woman. I get messaged by black men a lot. I never message them back.

I 100% believe it's programming. Any time anyone tells me they have a type of person they tend to date, I have little doubt that they were not born wired to be attracted to brunettes or men taller than they are, I believe it has everything to do with conditioning.

here's a great Asian feminist website http://www.bigbadchinesemama.com/