God, I love her so much. She is so good at explaining things in a real world type of way, which I think helps it click more for men who have never had to experience it.

When I hear it, the tone used with “Damn. Thank you” usually means “You damned stuck-up bitch. You should be grateful that I’m paying any attention to you. The proper response from you is a ‘Thank you’ to me.” And that’s why I walk through my city with sunglasses and headphones destroying my hearing: so I can at least…

Wait. Are these men also adopting the police’s opinion that you can suspect any Black man who dresses like a gang banger of being one and stop and frisk them? Now how you dress and not what you say or do is what should matter?

I’m actually more disappointed in Tyrese than Rev. His demeanor, his gaze, to me he doesn’t look like he’s really trying to hear where she’s coming from. And he’s condoning/rationalising assault even gesturing groping— urgh.. yuck. Rev. is more like a clueless dad listening to his daughter- he’s listening at least-…

Does that mean if I dress like a general I can start giving everyone orders and they have to salute me? I like this idea.

Amber rose is quickly becoming one of my favorite people.

From the description of your outfit I would’ve guessed they would force you to play Nirvana covers for them. What a wild twist that it has more to do with your gender than clothes!

To me, what it comes down to is this:

Cargo Pants: “I’ll hold your stuff. You just go and make friends”

In regards to “dress how you want to be addressed”:

One time, my friend’s brother’s cousin’s neighbor’s sister’s stepdaughter’s boyfriend was walking by a park wearing a baseball cap, and the next thing you know, he was captured, forced to play short stop for six months, and then won the World Series.

Seriously. If that were the case, every male student in my classes would be forcing daily pickup games when spring starts.

GO girl. When I was younger, I used to dress in flannel shirts and jeans to avoid attention and instead of catcalls, I got insults, and even “well-meaning,” “Why do you dress like that??” Uh, because you told me to dress down if I didn’t want your fucking attention. Here it is, now STFU.

I am confused. Why would I force a person to play basketball with me if he/she was dressed like a basketball player? Does that happen? Forced basketballery?

That would kind of be a good interview question/trick. “Oh, I see on your resume you that you have a strong attention to detail. When you entered my office I had a goat standing next to me. I left with the goat and returned with A goat, but is it the same goat?”

A better question is, “You just found out your true love has been fucking a goat every three months. Are they still your true love?”

My cat definitely does not consent to being picked up. She also does not consent to being put back down again. She meows in protest at each action. She certainly does not consent to going to the vet and having a thermometer shoved up her butt, but we do it anyway for her own good. For me the line is: don’t do anything…

...why do you have this picture?

The goat cannot consent... because it’s a goat.

i wouldn’t