In 1995, Duritz [1995'd].

This is fucking hilarious and thanks for explaining it, because I was still at the figuring-out stage of saying her name out loud and trying to come up with anagrams.

I’m sorry about the ‘never more than a minute thing’. 

Sue ESA until it’s fucking gone.

Why would they even have a file including that information anywhere on their website to begin with?

That's not a vulnerability. That's just stupidity by the coders and complete abrogation of responsibility by management. 

Anyone who uses or saved this list for use needs to take a serious look at themselves in the mirror. People who would doxx or take advantage of doxxing to harass another human being, but somehow think they have a moral high ground about ANYTHING are so deeply deluded they may be beyond saving.

Mine was a dude who was in his late thirties (I was barely 21) and had both an air mattress and an identical twin brother in their shared apartment. They would do like full on comedy bits together, like from vaudeville, but it’d be about how they went to some gas station and then fought over a cardboard display thing…

If god wants to send us to hell for using the brain he gave us, and trying to be accepting (liberal) rather than hating (religion/the right) then.....I don’t really know what to say. 

I am pretty sure yes is the answer to that.

Me three.

I grew up an evangelical, “speaking in tongues”, born-again Christian. I was anti-abortion, anti pre-marital sex, and had no idea what LGBTQ+ was (it didn’t even have the letters back then).

yeah, this book & surrounding culture fucked me up for a while. there's a part of me that wants to be like "fuck this dude and the wreckage he caused" and then there's the other part of me that thinks this is actually a pretty good apology, and of course people need to be allowed to fuck up and then figure it out. i…

It’s INSANE that a book about relationships written by a 21-year-old became a hit. Absolutely insane. 21-year-olds are IDIOTS. *Especially* 21-year-old dudes. I can’t believe that actual grown ups took him seriously - even evangelical weirdos.

I think it would behoove us to remember our liberalism here, and realize that while the guy wrote the book, it was millions of adults who foisted it on their kids because it said what they wanted to hear. It takes a village to make a movement, and speaking as someone who grew up the burned-over rural red America in…

I’m wondering that too.

This was my thought too.

Yes, it would have been nice if he had realized this before he wrote his book, however the book was a reflection of part of that culture and someone would have written something similar.

This guy’s (an others like him) work is the reason that my parents were complete psychopaths in my teens (and early 20's) in regards to dating.

So...Is coming out next?