Jesus. Just Google "Lean In" and privilege. I am not doing your work for you. It is feminism for women of means. Look at my other comments; that was my point.

Treatment is choice, but cure would be amazing.

You decided to comment on a feminist blog and you thought the word "feminist" would be considered an insult? Tee hee.

It is obvious that the term "1% feminism" means nothing to you and you used the term "self-proclaimed." I don't see what I am supposed to be responding to.

You are aware that "self-proclaimed" is used to undermine the legitimacy of any claim right? So, you just asked me: You didn't like something that isn't feminist; I thought this was a feminist bog. What am I supposed to answer to that cluster fuck?

At what point will we begin discussing her role in Drop Dead Gorgeous?

Ha. " Lean In." Well, that just gave your comments a context.

Are people any less likely to think that if he acts like sex toys are aberrant? If that is a true concern, don't write the article. Otherwise, what role does assuming people have these ideas do other than cementing those ideas as fact for the people who already hold them or distancing the people who don't have them?…

So, except for gender, the people listed and Doug are identical in every way? They write the same way? They treat comments in the same way? They have developed a relationship with the commenting community in the same way? Only difference, huh?

What I mean is not that he is making up the feeling or alone in it; that isn't what projecting is. What I mean is that the feelings he gives to others are the feelings that he has. Do firemen give a fuck if someone has a sex toy near their bed? No. Ask emergency workers about things like that. They have more…

I think he is projecting the judgments he would make of others onto outsiders.

That would be awesome. I am not Tenga's target user audience, but I could totally see me buying one and asking a partner to use it in front of me and describe it. I am fascinated by what gets people off.

Me too! The whole thing made me think this guy must be the most boring sexual partner ever. Why did he even try to write an article like this if he couldn't even tolerate sleeping with a sex toy next to the bed. And doesn't he write that he has only used lube in the dark with a partner?

She is to some extent, but the guy who wrote the article is a terrible writer with ridiculously narrow opinions and she shouldn't be echoing his terrible opinions. So, she still made a fucked choice.

This man's preoccupation with what other people will think about how he masturbates is grating and projecting. Is it too much to ask that people who get to bring themselves to orgasm in a new, consensual fashion be a little bit excited by it and not fear that firemen will call them "fags"?

Can wedge sneakers please stop being thing?

I would argue that friending him on FB is even better. He starts interesting discussions and posts tons of images.

Writes Mathu of this image:

Sean Penn certainly has a type. Watch out, white women with short blonde hair; he's coming for you.

Yep. Search for famous cross-dressers and get bounced to transgendered, transsexual, drag queen stuff. I totally see that there is overlap, but cross-dressers are male-bodied, male-identified, heterosexual persons, right?