whykinjabroken
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whykinjabroken

oh, what transcendence.

wow, "could of" in the gawker comments. guess i won't be reading any novels that come out in 2030!

oh, there are different types of rapists. adult serial rapists are evil, but some people make mistakes. my father was pure evil but no one apart from me (or my mother, until i told her he had incested me and that that was half the reason he'd hanged himself—since then she tells me she wishes he were still alive, that

i'm not literally saying that it's sadder that these monsters have women who support them than that they murder, rape, and torture people, especially children. THOSE are the saddest things in the world. what i'm saying is that THE WOMEN WHO LOVE THEM ARE A BIGGER PROBLEM IN TERMS OF ENABLING.

uh, that's all relevant to what i wrote.

plus...i LOVE anal. just nothing thick. cool? how do you go all mama bear in an ass? i wanna make sure i know what girth you're working with before i have to say no and try to beat you off as you rape me because you're just too thick for me.

is your husband's name mosi? cuz i really, really, really want him to know i regret leaving his letter about raping me in NYC when i moved back here. i would have been able to get his ass in jail. his wife calls herself mama bear. writing me that apology for raping me did not make anything better.

because it has nothing to do with intelligence.

are you kidding me, asshole!?

oh, dear...i think engaging is a terrible idea. but awesome job on the bravery =D i know it can be intimidating to talk about sexual assault. taxi drivers in NYC prey on women, too, so it's really a male problem. not that that makes you feel any better, but it's really very common.

i'm asking you, not her. have you ever?

the only thing rape culture does is reinforce men's belief that i deserve to be raped for calling rapists out, or for not being conventionally attractive but more and more sexually attractive the more we hang out, then saying no to sex.

vocabulary building: bipolar. look it up. you're using the pop culture pseudo-label but trying to seem like you understand the DSM.

snoooooooooooooooore.

bet you anything this guy gets turned on by stories of rape. he's not just switching argument tactics, not anymore. maybe at first that's all it was but note how his language is starting to become florid. he's getting aroused at the notion that someone will see him as an ally and tell her story.

snoooooooooooore. manipulation. but! are you looking to smooth things over...or are you fappin' to all the rappin'?

this is how some abusers are, you know. they instigate, provoke, and then as the argument progresses...they sneakily...act like...the other person...made up the conflict. that's what you're doing. over the last dozen comments or so you've begun saying "i'm sorry...we can agree to disagree, sweetie."

girl, you keep on pissin' all over these fires. you rock.

damn, i mean, i think maybe you understand the emotional heaviness underneath "that sucks." i was raped 40-50 times last summer by my boyfriend, and part of the reason i got my restraining order against him...is because...he's the nicest guy i've ever been with, ever, even though he tried to kill me thrice and beat me

oh? that fits perfectly with my character description of you a minute ago.