How about armpit hair? That’s what keeps me from going sleeveless.

Thank you!!!!

I don’t know about this story, and would like to. Link?

This is a great idea if you’re going to get divorced.

Can I get a FUCK YEAH!?

Yet ANOTHER wall-eyed psychopath!! I’m starting to develop an irrational fear/hatred of people that have this look. Huckabee, Holmes, Houser. Last names all start with H too. Creepy coincidences?

Congratulations!!!

I think, not that hard. My suggestion is to give yourself a period of time, and notify husband, that you are unhappy and you have been for a while and if it’s not better in 1 year, 2 years, 6 months, whatever you think you need, then it’s time to cut your losses and look for happiness elsewhere. I had the same…

That’s mean. You wouldn’t be here if not for that body.

I was addressing the original article in referring to Manhattan socialites- the alleged audience of the NYT, as addressed in this piece, and the Harvard business school grads mentioned in this piece as well. I disagree with you that people weigh the perception of society at large as heavily as you seem to think they…

I do agree with you, except I don’t think this article has the same amount of impact that you do. Didn’t think I was being argumentative...?

Maybe so. I certainly don’t know any Manhattan socialites or Harvard grads. If they are making their choices based on how society will view them though, I have to casually not care about how it works out for them on a personal level.

It’s really really hard. There is no one-size-fits-all approach. So coming right out of college and putting all you have into a career with the understanding that you might take a ‘pause’ from it to have children in 10 years doesn’t seem like anything besides common sense. I was super driven at first and it’s paid…

“How will men and boys start to realize that they have a stake in this too, and they can take a break to care for their children if that works for their family, or you can just hire a nanny if that works for you, or do whatever seems to work for you and your partner and your children?”

That was probably a rhetorical question, but I think there is a simple answer- because of women’s move into and out of the workforce with more fluctuation, historically, than men.

As long as we’re making less money than our partners, it makes sense to assume that we might be the ones putting our career ‘on pause’ when someone has to.

Alright. You’ve convinced me. You are very much better than this “stupid” woman. Good on you. Sounds like nothing unexpected will ever bring you down. Want to come do my job while I camp out near the hospital for the next month? Want to watch my kids for me? Want to write the plan that I can distribute throughout my…

This is such a beautiful photo :)

I agree with you. But the internet won’t help me deliver my baby on the way to the hospital. There’s that thing about ‘best laid plans’ going awry. There’s the declining state of maternal health care in this country. There are mothers/fathers who are doing their best and losing. There are people who are not doing…

Maybe, just maybe, it’s not STUPID, but just people doing the best that they can, and sometimes they lose anyway. Not a whole lot of accommodations for expectant/new mothers these days. Your shitty attitude toward us isn’t going to change that or help anything.