i dont want to beat you up- because i have convinced myself of CRAZY things when it came to my ex- but you need to stop contacting him. you’re not ready to admit it yet, but you knew he was married for a year, you just werent willing to do anything about it. i get it. i’ve been there. but you need distance. you need…

I’m so sorry this happened to you. It is truly horrifying. Everyone here seems to have given some sage and compassionate advice. All I want to add is that a key part of healing when you’ve been lied to for so long is learning to stop looking for or making excuses for why the manipulative person acts the way they do.…

I’m going to say this and it's going to sound mean but I'm telling you this because I have been exactly where you are and this is what I wish someone had told me: if he loved you, really truly loved you, he would not have done this to you. He would have been honest with you from the beginning because that is what you…

I don’t want to be cruel, but.... I think a lot of your confusion is coming from your need to stick with the idea that he did indeed truly love you. It’ll be difficult, but if you want to get over this you need to face that he didn’t love you.

I’m so sorry that you went through this. This guy is a liar, and even if he did contact you, do you really think he’d tell you the truth? He’s been lying to his wife since before they were married; lying is this guy’s way of life. Don’t look to this guy for closure, you’re going to have to move on because he’s made it…

You don’t seem angry, I think you should be angry. You kinda sound like if he called you and was all “baby baby baby” at you and “left his wife” you’d take him and girl, that’s not a good place to be. Maybe he’s doing you a favor by blocking you, no contact with this manipulative fucker is definitely the way to go.…

He sounds like a classic manipulator and narcissist. You deserve better.

Unfortunately, yes I think you can be an accidental mistress. I believe that you loved him. I’m not sure he loves anyone but himself. Making you love him made him feel good and important. He used your attention to build himself up. As far as telling you he loved you and wanted to marry you, he needed to keep you…

You fell for the wrong guy and wanted to believe he was truthful. He sounds like a psychopath, selfish, self-centred, and cruel. Neither you nor his wife deserved to be treated like that. Look after yourself, take the time you need to heal, and remember that one day you’ll wonder what you ever saw in him.

This is going to sound harsh, but I couldn’t think of a nice way to say this.

This guy sounds like a garbage explosion, which makes it so much worse when they are able to hide that for so long and leave you feeling rotten. I’ve been there myself and completely sympathize. My advice is to cold turkey that shit and never contact him again (I learned that one the hard way.) You will find so much…

I am so sorry. I hope this is the first and last time you will ever have to deal with gaslighting.

I’m trying to be gentle ... but I think you know the explanation. His wife caught him in yet another web of lies, and he’s freaked out about destroying his marriage. Even though he already did. His wife probably banned him from talking with you or texting you. (Please, please, please do not reach out to his wife…

I’m sorry this happened to you. Some people are cowards and run to avoid confrontation. You will get closure, however long it takes, but I wouldn’t expect any help from him in this.

The first season was epic. And, honestly, I continued watching for Evan Peters. Didn’t really know him before AHS and I think he is amazing. Fell in love with his character in Asylum.

JFC November seems so damn far away.

Was it just me, or did she look/sound a little emotional when she said the line about her daughters being able to take for granted that a woman could be president? I don’t know why, but I wasn’t expecting that from her. Not because I don’t think Michelle would care about big milestones in women’s achievement, but just…

Funny how some self-professed progressives are going to “protest” the corrupt DNC by allowing their fellow women/minority citizens to experience the biggest setback to their constitutional rights in decades, if not centuries.