One of my friends (a white girl herself) is forever trying to establish herself as the Most Woke White Girl by shitting all over white women and pretending it’s challenging racism. She doesn’t know it yet, but it’s actually lost her a few positions in local activist organizations. As in, we’re close friends and I…

STOP THE MATCH, THIS MAN HAS A FAMILY

I've been trying to express this for days now and you said it perfectly.

So I guess those four stars were worth it, after all.

This this this^

I can see your other posts. You told him to seek a therapist and called him a pervert. That’s over the line. Now you’re trying to say that *I’m* sexualizing children by asking that you take sexual abuse seriously. That's not what's happening, and you seriously need to re think how you speak and act towards other…

You can push someone to do their best without throwing a damn chair at them. The fool easily could have killed you with that behavior. He sounds like an abuser and I hope you know that you deserve to be treated better.

My thoughts exactly. Most of these people would rather see her dead than alive and talking.

I just started giggling in the middle of my office!

That’s why I think the way people tend to talk about how a mother’s love is unending and blah blah blah is inaccurate. Mothers abuse and murder their children all the time, and I think we make it worse because we don't acknowledge it.

Have you never heard of the movie But I’m a Cheerleader? Is everyone in that movie a pervert too? Also, guesses that someone is a pervert are not sufficent. Sexual abuse of children is not a joke. Your other comments to this person show that you’re just making wild guesses about this commenter to delegitimize them,…

AND, it being God’s plan, she HAD to sleep with this guy before marriage, SO, she’s really a not a hypocrite AND he pregnancy is proof that she’s a better person than all of those other women, who are just whores.

He’s got his publicists out there saying that he got fooled by a 22 year old gold digger. If he was abused, I think he’d probably claim it.

Oh my god. He's just as big of a scammer as the rest of the Palin family. Can you imagine being so craven that you would lie about how you earned a Medal of Honor?

I’ve never considered that the other party is unaware because the other party is usually tagged. But, the other party usually doesn’t post anything back, so I've always thought that indicated that one partner was clinging and the real problem was a lack of interest on the part of the other one.

Look, I'm talking about stuff you actually said. You equated his PR blitz against her to her talking about being abused and trying to protect herself. You suggested that she should be quiet. That's on you.

How is it wrong to speak out about being abused?

He’s putting himself in their position and saying what he thinks he would do. He’s not an underage kid, presumably, so he’s not perving.

Ah. Now I see it. If I had your temperament, I'd also spend a lot of time defending abusive people.

You literally said that amber should stop talking because she wasn’t helping DV victims. That’s policing her behavior and implying that DV victims should be more concerned with ‘the cause’, as defined by you, than their own reputations or lives.