See, I think the culture of secrecy needs to go away. There is a stigma to being a birthmother. People are often silent bc of judgment. I’m almost 50 now and used to think the past and pain would not be as harsh as time passed.  I’m open about it but many aren’t. The past isn’t dredged unless you kept it secret. Then…

I’m a reluctant birthmother and this issue is s major source of righteous anger in the adoptee community. The sealed records are supposed to protect the biological parents from the pain of later contact and the adopters of the fear their adopted children will want a relationship or even know their birth parents. The…

She blamed Obama. For real

I did. You gave me great advice that helped me get through this the right way

I did!  Thank you. I went trough abuse myself andit clicked. CAL THE COPS!  I almost was murdered. I’ll do all within my power to stop him and save her. 

Yay!

Can you see the above comment I left goddess?   I need advice.  I’m scared 

Goddess. I brought her home, she was here for minutes. I went to bed bc it’s been exhausting. I woke up at 2 and she’s gone.   I drove around and she’s in the park across the street. It’s acres and a lake.  She said she saw me drive by but didn’t come.  My husband is out of town. I’m losing it. 

She’s got black eyes and all. She’s 20

Its hard, challenging, rewarding, a pain in the ass but bewildering? Dummy

Grrr

My son is called Ollie. My grandson Monty.  Good cat names!

I’m so sorry maya. I don’t know you but you’re always in my heart. I want the good in the word for you!

I want that recipe!

Tonight my family, across the state, came together to get my daughter out of her very abusive relationship. I tried twice today to get her out then he smashed her phone.  I brought a new one and my son max asked I put his number in the bag.  10 minutes talking to him telling her she’s not dumb, abuse can happen to…

Awesome!

Yeah. That’s exactly the right word!

My husband googled that for me.  We’ve been laughing ourselves silly since this came today. It took a whole month though. 

As my Virginia dwelling self would say, 

He ordered it from the Kentucky Democratic Party.It’s a fundraiser.  We don’t live in Kentucky and never have but it’s AWESOME!