Thank you! This is a step forward, but there's so much more to do even just on the issue of marriage, which is FAR from the only legal obstacle facing the queer community.

Outside of a couple of degrees in the subject, I have the same right anyone else has to judge, since it's a very subjective thing. For some the criteria is that it enriches or reflects life, that it needs to be aesthetically pleasing as well as functional, or that all it has to do is fall under the umbrella of…

Can we talk about the "let's aggressively push her head down on my cock" motion? Nothing will make me hate a guy faster than that. It feels so fucking demeaning and controlling, to me... I'm just speaking for myself here, but I seize up and feel like I need to RUN if someone does that.

This is a good interview, and she comes across well, but the people who need to be questioned here are the people who thought up the concept, researched and okayed a photograph of the death of a woman whose son is still a child, and whoever thought that it was at all appropriate to use suicide to sell clothes.

Yeah- no. Firstly the idea of "appetizer and no entree"? That's bullshit. If you mean a lot of foreplay- most women are pretty okay with that. If you mean one partner achieving orgasm and leaving the other partner in the lurch- well one partner seems pretty selfish. Also, "passive" woman in your bedroom? Maybe you…

You're totally right. I have been manhandled like that any number of times, nearly always TRIED to "fight back," and that worked... eh, once. I always assumed it was because I was small that it didn't work (5'3", 115lb) but hearing from you makes me realize it's less about size and more about complete lack of respect.…

Personally, what I would say is that feminists believe there is no good, reliable way of identifying a rapist before they try to rape you, which is the really scary thing. I've been in a number of situations with my male friends where, were they of the mind to, they COULD rape me. I've had a long stretch of my life to…

You know, when I describe incidents of harassment to the decent, goodhearted guys I know (who, incidentally, are never short on girlfriends) they're always shocked and sympathetic. "Ew, really? Some gross guy with a goatee just picked you up from behind and put you on his lap? And wouldn't go away even when you told…

I recently stumbled upon the subreddit devoted to this shit - they call it "the red pill." It's actually kind of funny, there are "field reports" from guys who try this out in real life. I kid you not, every single one goes a little like this "Went to a bar, told a girl she should buy me a drink, she rolled her…

Exactly this. Thanks for saying it.

Physically pick her up and put her on your lap???

I wrote Ken asking if his mom is just another set of holes, too.

I for one, fully endorse "getting in close" when you are flirting with me. How else will I be able to jam my heel into your instep with the force I want if you're not all up in my personal space?

Maybe I can provide an intelligent response.