wanderbunn
Wanderbunn
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When I heard about the recent sexism lawsuit at AutoZone, I was that person who wrote AutoZone to let them know that I’m a woman who works on cars and I will never shop there again.

“A mating display”

‘Women Correcting Grammar And Spelling Because There Is A Generation Of Men Who Don’t Know How’

And what is that guy cooking? A piece of white bread?

That’s the dream, right? A man who cooks for you and can’t spell “our” correctly.

When a handful of women on your timeline share this meme and post “some of us can still cook;)))“

that’s why whenever I get the “well you cleaned up real good” line I push my glasses up the bridge of my nose with my middle finger.

The thing is, women aren’t stupid. I’m sure Greta knew this, and I’m sure she’s been inundated with how women should look her whole life, just like we all have. So if she was dressing that way, there probably was some sort of reason for it, you know? And rather than sit down and discuss possible reasons behind why she

See also: Be attractive - but effortlessly attractive. It doesn't count if you look like you're trying.

Yes! It means “Ew, gross, she can walk in them without breaking anything. Does she even care about my boner?”

About three sessions in, my therapist was like, “I’m pregnant. We’ve got 30 weeks.” And by god, I was out before the baby was.

I think he was probably right to bring it up, but the way he handled her reluctance was all wrong. I feel like the thing to do would’ve been like, “I can see you’re reacting strongly to discussion about your appearance—is this a sore point for you?” and explore why that is. The impression I’d get from that reaction is

There is someone out there for everyone. Ugly or frumpy or fat or whatever. I am both frumpy and fat and I have never had any problem attracting a man.

it seemed that she was clean and presentable, but extremely old fashioned- honestly? i bet she was just hugely practical. i mean he calls her shoes ‘too practical.’ like is that a t h i n g

Wow. Go Greta! There are tons of good comebacks to that, such as “go fuck yourself” and “eat a dick,” but “I dress up, asshole, just not for YOU” is a great one.

I’d put a caveat on that—talk therapy with no defined goal and end date is a scam. A good therapist will help you define goals, develop a timeline for meeting them, and frankly will push you out of the nest if things linger to the point where it’s clear they’re not helping.

HEY! DRESS LIKE A SLUT

I have a really hard time believing someone could have both a successful career in NYC and poor grooming habits. I would say with near-certainty that this was not a basic hygiene issue or something of that sort, and that line of specuation is way too generous to Hellerstein.

Say it with me fellas-

The piece summarizes a decade of therapy with Greta,