After reading a whole bunch of these comments, serious question for the straights...uh...are you assuming that lesbians (and other queer women) don’t have penetrative sex? Is this a common belief y’all have?

scoffing from a guy who hates women? I’m so sure you can find a gspot, let alone better than a woman. so fucking sure.

When the unseasoned can’t even tell what seasonings are.

By all accounts these guys were assholes but I don’t really know what purpose sending these guys to prison for 39 years instead of 9 years would solve anyway. And I say that both as a resident of Oakland and as someone who works with people sentenced to 25+ years in prison. We have to stop equating the length of the…

From what I understand, Brandon had not done any hormone treatment. Trans men that are pre-hormones, or elect to not take hormones live with more vulnerability. The more androgynous your features, like Swank, the more you can read ‘male’, but there is still a fragility to those that, like Brandon, are living ‘stealth’.…

I have a PhD, but if it weren’t for the long college and training process I would be a mechanic or a welder. Because I need a damn job.

This will probably stay in the greys but I spent all yesterday drawing my profile pic. It’s just a silly little doodle of a cat that was inspired by Bob Newhart and I’m really proud of it!

My dad passed last night. It wasn’t unexpected (cancer), but it was excruciating to watch. I felt peace in the moment of him finally being at rest, but now I’m just sad. I already had a moment where I thought “Oh, we’ll probably have dinner with Dad” after an upcoming event...and then realized that won’t ever…

To be fair to Hirsch, he did this back in 2015, when we didn’t know it was wrong to choke a woman out at a party and never apologize for it. Is it fair to judge historical figures by present-day standards?

The problem isn’t with disclosure/nondisclosure. The problem is the ripple effect these relationships have on departments. They’re never contained to the two people engaging in them. There was a really great piece in The Chronicle of Higher Ed a few months ago about the ramifications of sexual harassment and even…

I love you, my nigga.

Drake reveals that Kanye is actually Rob kardashian in blackface.

The real Ye moved to South Africa with Mos Def in 2012 and is now a High School drama teacher.

From the WaPo article:

I love it when Jezebel does a post about hip hop beef. I get a kick out of reading the comments. I distinctly remember when Jez wrote something about the shellacking Remy Ma gave Nicki and a commenter left a comment sincerely saying Nicki Minaj should call the police.

Not only that, but that white dude has watched a lot of pornography. Like, an unhealthy amount.

We are thicc with the grays this weekend. I wonder what happened? They are SO mad, madder than usual, in fact. Are they finally starting to realize that their daddy is about to go to jail? Did The Root go after some site, recently, and now they are flooding us with trolls?

As an unfortunate card-carrying member of the Recurrent Unexplained Early Miscarriages Club, I can say with confidence that having to make this decision would break me. The only way I have survived my four losses was to know that the tissue would be examined for defects that might lead to an answer and to remember…

So, I did the super cliche thing on the Day of Visibility and came out as trans today to my friends and family who did not already know (all but about 6 people). It honestly went great. Tons of support, including from some family members I had feared might not be on board, no warnings that my soul would be condemned…

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