LW No. 1 - The advice Jane gave is good. When you talk to people they want to give you all their opinions about how their separation went. They want to salt and burn bc they have been burnt before. But, when you listen to these people with a grain of salt bc god bless they don’t know shit.

The amount of time that affair continued, along with the lengths he went to to cover it up tell me one thing: He won’t stop. He sounds messed up. You sort of have to be to carry something on like that for so long. My husband carried on a affair for a long time and eventually came clean to me. He also has some…