absolutely. it’s not helpful to hear that. and those who say that have an ulterior motive. they’re either jealous of you or hate you or something. seriously. it’s utter bullshit. i used to work in the restaurant industry before i got my masters’ degree, and no i would not have married anyone from that phase of my…

yeah. fuck the ‘when you’re not looking’ bs. internet dating works pretty well b/c people are out there looking, on purpose. there’s nothing at all wrong with knowing you are seeking a relationship, and ready for a partner, and being proactive about it. if you don’t try, chances are you won’t meet someone....b/c at…

when i was doing my masters, i wasn’t meeting anyone i could date, and i decided to really pursue online dating. if you are at an age and place in career / life where you are not meeting new single options, you really have to try online dating. it can be fun and empowering. it can be a drag, but try to find the fun…