Right? It really does ruin the river though.

Yeah I definitely thought she was Hispanic! In Chicago we have channel 104.3 that only plays throw backs!!! Though, its like the same 10 throw backs...

Easily the Chicago Trump tower plastering his name at the Chicago river’s eye level.

I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. My dad was the healthiest guy in the world and just one day had kidney cancer and was dead in a year. I still haven’t gotten over it. I am sending you some love because no one should have to be in this position. 

I was pretty young too - but also watched a TON of MTV!!! I think honestly I thought she was white because my neighbor, who was the same age as me listened to Amy Grant and I figured they were like the same type of person? YOUNGNESS IS A CRIME. HAHA.

HAVE I????? WHO HASN’T!!!!! 

Yea even here I thought she was white or maybe Hispanic. I knew she had changed her tone, but yeah I was dumb preteen for sure. 

I am obviously desperate for any glimmer of removing them... haha.

I know this. I also know they are in the middle of “fixing” things... 

I DID MISS IT. Actually now I am looking at her discography - I think #1's are what really made me think OH WOW SHE IS A BLACK WOMAN. 

I feel this SO MUCH. 

This is pretty much what I am doing - its all “tastes like garbage” to her... its been a struggle. I will prevail hopefully!

Exactly!

Mmm that last line is something I didn’t think of! They are little 3 and 1 - but always worried about whats on other people’s plates.

She’s fully disabled (MS), so she can’t really do anything on her own at all - she can barely feed herself at this point. I think she would be content eating the same foods every day, but I have all this guilt that she isn’t eating healthy - and if she dies I’ll blame myself... since I already feel like I am not…

You know what - as a plain ass white woman who has noooo ambiguity - I would love to have a little “what is she” mystery in my appearance.

GOOD GRIEF YOU KNOW I’M FEEDING HER ALL THE CHEESE AND MEAT BASED FOODS I CAN!!! 

I was on a low carb buffalo mac and cheese vape - I FEEL YOU.

Juul is working on it - don’t you worry. This has to be some kind of soap box covering up another issue. 

This hits close to home: