oh damn should’ve made that clearer: DTMFA

I agree that getting a head start makes a lot of sense for that one girl - she should just do that with the *next* boyfriend, because this one sucks.  

So, for the guy with the low sex drive...I try not to smoke weed before sex because it makes the sex too good for non-high weed to compare with but maybe you should try just asking him to commit to (a) setting aside time and doing his best and then (b) getting high and giving it at least an hour of cuddling to see if…

1) First thing I thought about gay partner not wanting sex - yeah, probably not the pandemic so much. Guess time will tell for these two. I’ve yet to experience any gay man who refuses sex for a long time unless there’s a disconnect or lack of attraction to the other dude, but I suppose life pressures can get in the…

“And you can’t suck dick from 6 feet away”

The sheer dread I felt at the start of COMA’s letter about where it could be going was indescribable, but then it turned out (very thankfully) to not be sex advice at all.

Her aunt is probably just as devastated with grief, so before telling her to fuck off, she should probably begin with, “look, I know you’re overcome with grief and it’s causing you to lash out in ways you probably wouldn’t otherwise, but would you please FUCK OFF?”

Also there is a fucking pandemic! And she’s pregnant. Someone needs to scream at this aunt to fuck off 

Okay these are all quick

Valentine’s Day:

After a decade of a marriage V-day was simply the impetus for us to get takeout from out favorite Italian spot, and that’s about it. Otherwise, V-day is in competition for New Years Eve for forced merriment and jacked up prices.

“It even rhymes!”

Come on, it’s assonance. For shame on whoever taught you English!

COMA - my dad died a little over 18 years ago, and we were all there that night, except for my dad who had been unconscious for hours.

The math isn’t adding up for MATH. After four years of almost never satisfying sex, she’s just recently getting around to asking for foreplay? Or after a few sessions four years ago, she told him he didn’t have to go leaping straight for the clitoris like a bull out the gate? In any case, getting bored of foreplay is…

Spot on with the advice to COMA. She loved her dad, it very much sounds like her dad loved her, and both of them knew it. The opinion of anyone else is utterly fucking irrelevant.

I think Valentine’s Day’s tag line ought to be: “the straights aren’t OK.”

Interesting—your comment did the latter for me.

Reading Patricia Lockwood always puts me in a state of both cackling glee and seething, visceral jealousy, which I suppose is the highest compliment you can give a writer.

Sounds like an interesting read. Not sure how easy it would be to get it (not via Amazon) in Spain, but I will keep an eye out for this.

I believe 16. Assuming the seasons in any way match real time, the Angelus arrival was mid-season in season 2 and she turned 17 in that episode.