But, why should it worry me? I have lived with this man since day 1 of dating. literally! We were friends, but I needed a place to stay ASAP. He offered the extra futon in his (rather) large bedroom for me to temporarily crash on. We drank, we fucked, we decided we'd rather be together than just friends. 8 years…

I am also in a studio with my husband. One thing I've noticed that's a benefit of 2 people in a studio; you're literally forced to confront your issues. There's no place to hide, sulk, or otherwise avoid an argument, so its best to learn your communication style/conflict resolution skills ASAP. There's no 'sleeping on…

yes! I'm the same way! In the 8 (dated for 6, married for 2) years my husband and I have been together we've spent ONE night apart, and it was awful. I think I cried myself into a quasi sleep, and then called him at 4 am and begged him to come home (he was at a bachelor party and was too drunk to drive so he stayed…

How long until some bougie black girl and/or clueless white girl starts screeching about this movie being 'PROBLEMATIC' because like...racismz, and how dare white people (with all their money, power, and ability to market the fuck out of this) tell this story.

*clapclapclap* well said bahamamama1.

.... "do you even go here?"

Sometimes I think Jez is straight up 'reality-shaming'.

oh snap, THIS. all of this comment. TRU FACTS.

yes! but lest we forget the lessons taught to us by well meaning Uncle Todd's, we can't be mad at black people for being racists. No, we must pity them, for they are victims stripped of all agency, forever stuck in a cycle of victim/perpetrator racism.

GAAHHHH flashbacks to my youth, when I was a competitive figure skater. Seriously I had an instructor just like this, and she had gold skates...god I hated those gold skates...and her face. -_-

Oooh girl, my condolences to your sister, Stabby Rockford certainly lives up to its moniker. =/ For what its worth, Guilford High School, class of 2002. (uuugggh that was so long ago!! I'm officially An Old.)

Heh almost, actually I grew up in Rockford, IL, on the non-stabby side of town.

...all of this is amazing, and I honestly can't choose. :D

who...who is this wonderful specimen?!?!?!

*shrugs* my prom was ok, I had a off the rack clearance dress from Marshall Fields (navy blue, fishtail hem, rhinestones lining the sweetheart neckline), had my hair professionally done, did my own make up, blah blah blah. My date, who was my b/f at the time, managed to snag a suit from the thrift store which had navy…

I have to say, I'm really digging the high-waist skinny jeans look (makes my ass look amazing), but does it different from mom jeans? I always took mom jeans to be high-waist, but baggy and not very butt flattering.

A point about the body builders-they generally don't use tanning beds, as the type of deep dark tan they need to achieve isn't possible without severe skin burns. Body builders use a specific type of competition spray on tan. Its super dark and takes about a week to apply. On the off season they either don't tan, or…

But wait, I thought non-N.A. people wearing hair feathers were committing the unforgivable sin of cultural appropriation? And that (per an enlightened Jez commenter from the Michelle Williams fiasco) N.A. people are the only people who can wear hair feathers, since they invented the whole concept in the first place.

I've wondered about this as well. On a lark I've tried both atkins and paleo, my conclusion is that I NEED carbs to function. And I'm not just talking carbs from a like a peach or broccoli, I mean I need bread, bread-like products, and wheat based products to survive.

lololololwut.