To WTFDIS:

I won’t say I’ve been there, but I’ve been in a situation that feels to me very much like the one you’re describing. I found my way to that place by a different avenue, but the occasionally suicidal thoughts, the utter social isolation, the having no idea how to build/rebuild my social and romantic life in a…

To Gluttonous Guy:

Nerdlove is right, by and large, I think. You’ve found someone you’ve been happy with for five years, and there don’t seem to be any problems aside from whether or not someone else might be better, sexually or whatever, for either or both of you, and by raising the potentiality question in your mind…