My name is Marquisha and I’m mixed and I’m currently in a relationship with a black man and he throw racist things at me is that ok or no?

You are a professional bullshit writer, congraulations. You ate the racist, worried about the color of what women men are marrying. Black american women are so racist that makes me sick...

Total Racist. Funny that blacks are most racist against blacks. They hate and prey on their own race. Even if you’re half black you will never be a real black. I was looking forward to a future where a person is judged by their character and not by the color of their skin. And not in mass.

Hey, I'm a moderator on Groupthink, which is Jez's commenter forum. I used to be a main page moderator when those existed and the way some people have responded to you would've resulted in moderator action back then. I'm really sorry. Please don't feel like you cannot express your pain or your experiences. If you…

That's a pretty personal attack on someone who basically said they were uncomfortable reading an article that normalizes incest, because they were a victim of it. I think their reaction is pretty normal, and it's okay for them to say it. Your responses show an incredible lack of empathy for them and what they survived.

Wow — let me get this straight, you're the slighted party here, because I said you were being horrible to an actual victim of abuse? Is that just about right...? Okay, "got it". You're a real class act, "rudebarb".

"Not every thought or feeling you have is important enough that you have to express it, especially when it only serves to compound someone else's trauma." Which is exactly what you're doing to hella right now!

No, you riled up the mob mentality well for a few stars (which you'll noticed dropped off precipitously as the thread went on), but don't get the impression that this means "plenty of people agree". (And if they did that would excuse your actions?)

Well said.