I’m hearing didn’t have your full consent? I hope he doesn’t assualt other women he meets on the app.

Are you saying the doctors didn’t explain that it would include a rectal exam? For assault victims that’s especially important. In general, doctors really need to inform patients what is being done to their bodies. I’ve always made sure they explained what they’re doing. They could unintentionally hurt their patient.…

That piece of shit needs a lesson in Consent 101

Slipping in or penetration in any hole doesn’t necessarily mean sex to everybody, hence the confusion. People define sex by thrusting, pleasure, or other contexts which is why I mentioned rape culture. Does anal sex even require a penis? I’m sure fingers, toys, tongues are just as likely to slip for many people too.…

It’s the “accidental” part that gets me. I believe it could easily slip in, but continuous thrusting? It’s a different feeling though? but I guess people’s bodies are different. Then I wonder if people say accident out of shame. This easily just becomes a conversation on rape culture.

This has everything to do with race. I noticed a lot of poc think she did it.

That’s because he agreed with you. It would’ve been different if he didn’t.

Soulless?? What a weird way to undermine a Black woman’s passionate labor and compare her body to a thing with the typical back-handed compliments. (There are some jokes white women specifically shouldn’t touch.. even if it’s trendy, try to resist for once.)