if you don’t continue to work on it, you will probably fall off the wagon at some point or engage in other unhealthy behavior.

But your god can’t be yourself because it is an ego thing? Guess what the only one with the power to quit is me so I guess that makes me my own God.

Your league is just the people you associate with. You’re saying that all the best people should only associate with the best people and the worst should be left with the worst. This does not seem to be an arrangement that treats people with dignity, especially since you’re putting the onus on those with low-value to…

Except “normies” as you call them, would never say that, because “normies” respect women, and don’t think of them as commodities that men deserve or need. Someone who identifies as an incel should NOT have a girlfriend. I’d worry for her safety and her mental health being with a person who thinks she’s an object that…

Ah well, at least it keeps you true believers rounded up and busy. Enjoy the workbook lol.

Do you have any actual data that backs up these claims, or is this one of those special fairytales that got made up in a reddit forum?

The truth is, there are no easy answers. Real love is always dependent on two people agreeing to sacrifice something for each other.

I swear. That kinda porn used to be niche— abuse, hairpulling, slapping, choking— but now mainstream guys are watching it to get first-date tips. No fucking thank you.

Hopefully one day something happens that shakes you out of it. It’s like a dream, it all seems normal and good, but one day you get slapped back to reality.

I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 21, just mostly due to social anxiety, social awkwardness, introversion, shyness, not having many friends, having no fucking clue how to talk to women, not “going out” much, etc. So, yea, for like a good chunk of my teenage years and most of the first two years of my 20's I was…

I’ll say it: masturbation and legal prostitution are under-rated.

The people I know in twelve step circles have just traded their old addiction in for being addicted to the twelve step, which, I guess is probably more healthy in a lot of ways.

Only tangentially related, but no one ever tried to pull my hair during sex before free porn was all over the internet. Now I’m frequently yelling at dudes to stop yanking my hair. I don’t like it. And if someone ever tries to choke me without asking first, he will get fucking tazed.

I was a female incel for nearly 10 years and absolutely, definitely never lost interest in sex. The opposite, actually.

It’s tricky. It doesn’t come naturally to some people, and there is so much contradictory information out there that it seems like a labyrinth. You work on being well educated, having many hobbies, being well dressed, having good hygiene, working out regularly, improving social skills, trying to be confident, and when…

especially among people on the autism spectrum and younger clients “raised in front of screens” who weren’t taught enough about how to make and maintain intimate connections

Unfortunately, I have to agree. The ones who will go out and commit violence aren’t the incels who are just legitimately depressed at their lack of romance - it’s the low-level narcissists who are too emotionally lazy to connect with someone and are angry that they aren’t the studly playboys of their fantasies.

Sorry, but I got hung up on this: “possibly assault, in no uncertain terms”.

Nobody who identifies as an “incel” is going to read this, and even if they did, they wouldn’t do anything about it. After all, it’s not THEIR fault that the panties don’t just immediately drop whenever they’re nice to a woman (and really, how dare she not bang anyone who pays her a compliment...you bought that bitch…

If you are an “incel” and think that women must sleep with you, then may I suggest this form of help for you