Can’t comment on open relationships, but if you’re demanding that he take on an identity he doesn’t, well, identify with, that’s not going to go over well. Same sex experiences in the past dont necessarily translate into “bi” or “bicurious” by default for the rest of one’s life. Unless he’s actively looking for sex…

Shout out to everyone dealing with chronic pain while staring down into the abyss of winter. Wishing you an ample weed supply. Say it with me: Fuck this shit.

Late to the game with a KC story! When I was just out of high school, I worked at this suburban pick-your-own farm in our dinky town north of LA. I worked in the surprisingly expansive animal centre, which was super fun, except that like 40% of the labour involved giving kids pony rides and walking for hours in a…

It’s very dangerous that our culture increasingly frames being fat as the worst possible thing a person could be. Eating disorders are so complex and have so many intertwined causes, but as a fat person who has to constantly work on self worth, it’s despairing to think of how the fear of being fat, or becoming fat, or…

Gosh you should like make that into a poster.

I’m really glad you’re doing well, buddy. You are overcoming insurmountable odds in a culture like this, particularly with people like this SadisticBee shithead. They talk like an eating disorder is something you “overcome”. If only. Everyone thinks shaming large bodies leads to healthy smaller bodies. As we can see,…

And it's none of your goddamn business. She may be just as fat regardless. I've already seen enough of your comments about fat people to disregard any further screeds.

Let’s just get your deal straight, alright?

“She gained her weight from a bad place.”

As the child of a mother who abused me relentlessly for being fat, policed everything I ate, and turned my relationship with food into a shame filled binge routine, you can go fuck yourself. I’ve had 10 years of therapy and still have to battle this crap every day. You have zero idea what she’s been through or what…

Ehh. Having two parents like this, I can tell you we’re all one shitty email, phone call, text, or snooping relative away from doing just what Oliver did. It's easy to judge when you haven't had a narcissist or two needling at you your whole life.

Most of what you've written about Julia gives me a baaad vibe. She sounds excessively punitive and not very chill for someone trained to deal with these things. I'm glad you're seeking someone else.

Hey. I am NOT to be truffled with.

Fantastic username

Hey folks. I was just diagnosed with CFS after a two year battle with RA (now in remission but still in just as bad of health). All of this started immediately after I came to grad school. I’m 30 and I walk with a cane. In three years I went from hiking regularly to spending most of my time in bed. It’s been clear for…

Most serious fetal abnormalities don't show up until about 20 weeks, and devastating/fatal abnormalities are the number one reason why abortions occur this late in the pregnancy. So this isn't an arbitrary, harmless cutoff point. Conservatives are doing their best to prevent women from making their own choices when…

Don't be a sore loser just because no one will let you within a mile of their genitals, much less make a baby with you.

People don’t choose their skin color. Cops choose to be cops, to make their living working for an institution that brutalises and oppresses the most vulnerable. They can stop being cops at any time. If you voluntarily associate with and make your money from a corrupt gang, you’ll be judged accordingly. Stop trying to…

Some sportsing fans are very delicate, despite their displays of sexually violent humor, aren't they?

I was surprised this story didnt get picked up here when it broke. So fucking disgusting