Some of us are women! And I, at least, don't know anything about Magic and can understand that some people might not find that an appealing trait in a partner. I think where it crossed the line for me was using his real name and implying that he was tricking people into going on dates with him.

I agree. I, for example, play WoW. It doesn't run my life, and I have many other interests and endeavors outside of it that I would *much* rather partake in. Yet any time someone hears that in passing, the conversation abruptly ends, and the "oh, you're one of *them*... ew" attitude comes out.

Why is that such a bad thing?