I 100% agree with Tim Gunn and want to go to Red Lobster with him and Andre.  Speaking of, where’s Andre? (One of the finest few moments in reality tv history)

But wasn’t the whole point that Bundy was more than “vaguely likable?” that is how he was able to victimize so many woman, by getting them to trust him. 

Yeah, none of those cuts featured in the article are actually The Rachel. And you’re right, the actual Rachel haircut was a layered nightmare that is too high maintenance for anyone who doesn’t keep a full-time hairstylist on retainer.

A true Rachel is high-maintenance af. You gotta blow dry that shit with a round brush to get the appropriate kind of volume and bounce from the layers that make it a Rachel. You can get adept at a round brush blow dry, but it takes practice, and even with skill that takes a lot longer to do than just about any other…

YES! For years I’ve said I could take all of him except the face and my friends are horrified but still I’ve persisted! There are dozens of us!

Thank you for finally speaking against Tatum, your stand has inspired in me the courage to say that he has a block head.

Truth. I and the women in my life routinely use “it’s fine” as a phrase that means “it’s absolutely not fine, but it’s not worth the drama that the truth will bring up.”

My point was that gray area bad behavior has been more destructive to me personally than the black and white assaults (I’m not suggesting this is true of everyone, just me and how I’ve personally responded to these things).

As a hetero woman with daughters I see myself in everything you just said.

Thank you for talking about this.

Those text messages are so hard to read because they remind me of my own past. The day after my ex strangled me I woke-up and texted him “You are not bad.” I’ll never be able to to forget that I said that.