think of it this way: life is fleeting no matter what, and if it has any point at all it’s to have experiences and form connections. You love your kid and you’re doing everything you can to give her a good and happy life while also getting a lot of joy from her, and that has inherent value. Yes, maybe the later years…

“Actual gay people” damn, that’s... super unhelpful. People who identify as bisexual, or queer if bisexual doesn’t feel like the most accurate representation of who they are, (and also because we’ve historically been erased and excluded from the gay community!), aren’t like... some diet version of gay. If you don’t…

You’re making this about white women, when the whole piece is about us NOT doing that, about taking some time out of our lives to simply listen, and try to understand, and to do the work of making sure our feminism is intersectional. Like, sorry, but we as white women are absolutely not suffering more under white…

Unfortunately, content ID typically requires an ISRC, which is how labels can issue takedowns of their content from youtube. It’s why some people will use slightly distorted or sped up versions of songs instead. It’s incredibly difficult to issue broad takedowns without an ISRC, and they’re really only applied to…