Your post makes no sense. Accepting your body doesn’t mean you stop presenting yourself in what, to you, constitutes the best light possible. It seems like you’ve bought into the idea that there is some “real” feminine body. Do you cut your hair? Do you brush your teeth? Do you put on clothes that you picked out? Do…

Why oh why do Jezebel commenters who self identify as “Southern Women” persist in insisting that there is anything “harsh” about “Bless your heart”? As though there were anyone left on the planet for whom the significance of this phrase was not completely transparent.