I’m trying to grapple with a similar question. Generally I tend to think that if you said no and froze up, it’s still rape. You also don’t have to have been terrified for it to have been rape, you know? In my experience, when I was raped when I was too drunk to consent, I felt nauseous, confused, overwhelmed. The next…

I always look forward to these threads every year, and every single year I read them until far too late at night and spend most of the week on very little sleep. When will I ever learn! I love a good ghost story though, and I swear this story is true. Honor system! (it’s not fun if it’s not true)