I am as radiant as the sun, which is why I have to answer phones. Otherwise my hotness would cause rioting in the streets.

...in which he wrote that Glass’s new project “should be rewarding for her considering she didn’t appear on Crystal Castles’ best known songs.”

SKEWED TOO FEMALE?! IT’S MOTHERFUCKING NANCY DREW

What a brave woman. Not that I’d want to spend any time with a person like Rusty, but I’m glad someone did just so we can understand why he does what he does. We may not agree with his actions (I certainly don’t), but I appreciate that someone took the time to find out WTF Rusty’s damage is in case it can be fixed.

They had everything to lose and nothing to gain. Imagine how it must be to victims everywhere when America voted in an abuser to the highest office in the land.

I’m curious where Gretchen Mol is with all of this. If you believe the blind items that circulated about the two of them, he preyed on her for years, dangling offers in exchange for sex only to rescind them immediately. If she chooses to come forward, I hope she lights him on fucking fire.

Believe one another.

For each of these women who has spoken up, I fear there are hundreds who haven’t. The description that fear turns him on is bone chilling. I would wager that he has raped many women.

I thought Matt Damon was one of the good guys. 😢. I HOPE YOUR MOM IS DISSAPOINTED IN YOU MATT! YOUR DAUGHTERS & WIFE TOO.

I’m kind of between your situation and the LW’s situation. I have a great work environment, good benefits, a pretty supportive boss, but I’m not crazy about it and the longer I stay the more pigeonholed I get. If your situation is one where everyday is a nightmare (and really think about what qualifies that and why…

Yeah, I want to hear more about that too. Did he lie to his mother about who she was? Was it a planned meeting or a coincidence? Does the mom know her son is cheating? Is the mom enabling him? I hope LW3 comes into the comments.

I kind of feel like “I met his mother” got glossed over here. What’s THAT story?

Possible outcomes:

Exact same boat. Last night I applied to a position that would mean leaving my hella cushy government service job for a limited term posting at a ~15% pay cut, and all I can think about this morning is how much I hope they contact me for an interview.

Absolutely 100% tell the wife. Is this advice even serious?

I get it. It’s a “good” problem to have, and feels like sour grapes, but dreading how you spend more than half your waking hours is a shitty way to go through life.

I can’t think of other situations in which you are allowed to blow up another person’s marriage, but I’m sure our commenters can come up with some.

I have the opposite problem as the first letter writer: I have a job that pays me gobs and gobs of money, has amazing benefits, and would basically be the apex of most people’s careers in my field. But, I hate it and it makes me miserable. Just yesterday I applied for a job that will be a nearly $40,000 pay cut, a…

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