No kids, but I take my daughter on a blank check trip to the mall if she gets a rap like that from school.

Having a little sister showed me that I can be an abusive little shit. I use that shame and embarrassment to remind myself when someone’s calling me an asshole to stop and honestly check whether theyre right. Often they are. Lsos* to be a better big bro. Middle aged and she’s my best friend by miles.

Yea. I I don’t know from gender theory. Imf just saying that if some dude was doing this to a girl - and dudes did literally exactly this to girls in HS - and suddenly the men were all clutching pearls that she hit back at a place we’ve all hit at and been hit at, I’d be surprised. I Iwas an unpopular kid, so its…