"Boyfriend" is probably a key word here.

Yeah, and didn't you comment on something else and say you were 20 years old? As someone who's also in my early 20s, I figured it would go without saying that I would acknowledge that sex drives ebb and flow—particularly as relationships stretch for decades and careers intensify.

My husband seems to think that everyone is always having more sex than us, so your post makes me feel better. I feel like a bad wife sometimes. I'm just so exhausted after work and I want to play on the computer and go to bed. Sex more than once a week feels like a chore to me. I could go a month (or longer) without…

Am I the only one who thinks that twice a week sounds like a lot? Especially in a stable LTR/marriage - that's twice a week, every week, forever? I like sex with Mr. Peach just fine but we just don't get around to it that often because we're tired. Sad excuse, but dual income relationships with challenging jobs don't…

Meh. Sometimes I enjoy it, sometimes I don't, but it's just never something that I care about enough to initiate myself.

I've noticed quite recently that in all of my relationships, I have never been the one to initiate sex. I would be quite happy in a sex-less relationship. I don't think that it's a libido issue, because I masturbate quite frequently, but having actual sex with another person doesn't really intrigue me.