No. Nope. Nope. Nope. Run.
Don’t be alone with him again. People (sometimes) tell you who they are. When a man says he wants to hurt you, injure you, and penetrate you against your will, he means he wants to hurt you, injure you, and penetrate you against your will. If he did assault you, his texts and the fact that you were too thrown to…
I’d delete his number, personally. I don’t fuck (with) men who have rape fantasies or are into violent sex. It’s just a line I can’t cross.
I’ve had friends who were into that level of kink completely consensually, but from what I gather it’s a subject only broached after much comfort was established, not in the still-texting phase.
Rapey vibes for sure. The words “torture”, “against your will,” and “chocking” are major red flags
Baby girl, I’m pretty wild. I’m a webcam model. I’ve tried a lot of things.
Maybe there was actually a different reason for his divorce.
I try not to kink-shame given I’m a married white dude, but that seems a tad too much. I would look elsewhere. It borders on creepily violent.
Chokin’ a bitch out sounds suspiciously close to murder.
Nah I’d pass. The “torturing you with a vibrator” doesn’t weird me out. A lot of people are into a lot of teasing/foreplay but the rest.... ehhhhh. I mean I don’t think it’s wrong between two people who are into that. Idk maybe he thinks that’s what the whole 50 shades thing is and all women want that? I would just be…
I understand that some people mutually engage in that kind of fantasy, but “casually dating” + tying up + torturing + against your will + choking = run the other way. Please!
I mean, that depends on you and what you like in the bedroom. I know women whose panties would’ve been flooded after reading that. I also know women that would never talk to him again after reading that. He should’ve figured that out before going there. The fact that he didn’t is a little concerning. Follow your…
Sadistic/rapey AF
Yes, sadistic, and possibly a control thing. If you aren’t into it, say it.
Aggressive
Run. fast.
Everyone loves to ham on Leonardo Di Caprio, but DAMN, he was excellent from his earliest roles.