I fucking LOVE candlesticks. I never, ever would have asked for them. I didn’t ask for crystal either, and what did we get? Crystal candlesticks. And I couldn’t love them more. Thanks, intuitive/traditional neighbor from childhood!

I was dead set on Jenny - I wanted the more hippie bride thing, but when I tried it on it was so comfortable it felt kind of...normal? Which is insane, because these gowns are so expensive and beautiful. But truthfully, I felt like I was just hanging out in a maxi dress. Some brides may love that but as an avid maxi…

Fear not (except for the price)! I wore Carolina and I am none of those things - I loathe sororities, didn’t change my name, had a mutual discussion sans ring for a proposal, had an overseas wedding (groom is foreign), am from the northeast with the mouth to prove it, and our wedding song was Guns ‘n Roses. You make…