Fantastic point.

I just plain don’t believe it. It’s a cop out. If a dude says, ‘they don’t like me’, it shuts down the conversation without determining if that person ever had a true attraction to Black women and/or ever truly attempted to connect with us. Similar interests/physical proximity is gigantic in how high schoolers get…

Is this a chicken and egg situation? I have met plenty of dudes who say they hang out with and date White people because they, too,“like” stuff that codes White. But they never seem to realize they like that stuff *because* it affords them access to Whiteness. Can you genuinely love the Cranberries? Sure. Can you…

It’s not the same damn skirt, in fact, that is the point. If you’re bigger, you need to get a bigger skirt. If you have big boobs, yeah you have to button your shirt up an extra button. This is the way things work, and kids need to learn that.

I miss him.

Honk back?

Wow, dude — pick up a history book. There were 12.5 million slaves SOLD INTO SLAVERY BY THEIR OWN KIND, out of that 12.5 million, 2.5 million died on the slave ships. Out of that 10 million that survived the slave ships, 388,000 made it to the united states, or about 0.86% of today’s black population, which is only…

It’s true. He was a shitty doctor.

Looking to kill a cop. - Uh, at 4am, in an area that likely wouldn’t have cops, and this “happened to be there.”
Answering a burglary call. - In the middle of damn nowhere, lights off?
Then toss in not following procedure? Yeah, this stinks to high heaven.

They straight up live next door to Tiffany’s. This is the equivalent of me handing Barack a gift from my bodega.

It’s just that society makes those of us who are alone (whether by choice or out of necessity) feel like losers/weirdos - especially during the holidays. Sigh.

Agreed. But as others noted, there is a societal pressure to reach milestones like marriage and procreating. For those of us who don’t, we’re made to feel like we failed at adulting, that there’s something wrong with us because we e failed to find a partner. There is still a societal stigma to being single and…