That’s pretty much how the next gay wedding I’m attending ended up happening.

Oh no DEFINITELY not a bad thing. Would watch x100.

No, that’s exactly why. Anyone who puts 25 ultra-fit gay men in a house packed with alcohol can’t reasonably expect them all to hold out for the one dude at the end. They’d hook up with each other.

As a teacher, though, how do you suggest dealing with the consequences of that trigger warning in a practical sense? If it’s just one student, on one topic, sure. But if you’re going to put a trigger warning on every piece of material you discuss, and let students opt out without ever encountering it, how are you ever…

I’m sorry that you had that experience, but that sounds like a problem between you and your partner. That’s not Broad City’s responsibility. They make comedy about the lives of adults, which commonly include drugs, alcohol, sex, etc. If you were in that fragile a state, is there ANYTHING your partner could have put on…

That’s certainly an important point to make. I’m kinky, but I do not agree with those who consider kink an orientation, nor do I agree with those who consider poly an orientation. Despite that passionate paragraph you quoted, every bit of research indicates that kinks are acquired, not inborn. They can be acquired…

My objection isn’t to foreplay in public. The distinction I’d draw is, is the public PART of your foreplay? Is the thrill exposing your sex life to people who may or may not want to see it? The moment you involve other people in your play, you should be sure you have their consent. Whereas to me, it seems like these…

So the next time a guy sits down across from you on the subway and puts his hand in his sweatpants, staring directly at you and breathing heavily, you’re going to think to yourself, “Well, it’s a public space and they’re his pants, he’s not invading anyone’s space. I guess I’m the one with the problem; I should move!”…

I was being hyperbolic. Welcome to the internet.

Cool, the subway guy who gets off on exposing himself can jerk off right in front of you, then? Because you’re so cool with people expressing their sexuality however they feel is most appropriate in public. You’d be fine with that. You’d support that. You’d LEND HIM A FUCKING TISSUE. Wouldn’t you?

Holding hands and kissing are generally accepted public behaviors. I even mentioned them above, if you were capable of reading. Why is this so hard to understand? It’s etiquette. It’s manners. It’s rude and selfish to completely ignore the desire of dozens of people to have a pleasant weekend afternoon in favor of…

Yes, exactly. Let’s all try to be a little better than a subway creep, shall we? Perhaps set the minimum standard for public behavior somewhere north of that?

Yes. It was a hyperbolic example. Apologies for internetting on the internet. My point was that there is a general expectation that responsible adults do not engage in sexual activity in public. Of course there are a million exceptions to that—just ask the wearable vibrator in my nightstand. But I would never, ever…

Oh FFS. Puppy play is 100% a sexual activity. I’m sorry if all your sexual experiences have left you with the impression that something can’t be innocent, free, AND sexy, but that’s not the case. It’s a kink. And responsible kinksters don’t make innocent bystanders part of their kink.

It’s not strange to me. I have a couple of good friends who do this. Do you know where I see them do it? At sex parties and kink-friendly events where everyone around them is of age and is aware of what they’re going to see. Not on Saturday at the mall surrounded by children.

The liberal knee-jerk reaction that says “Sure! It’s all okay!” is just as dumb as the conservative knee-jerk reaction that says “No! Never okay! Missionary only!” As a kinky person myself, I promise you that there is etiquette we observe just like there is etiquette the general public observes, and it’s damaging to…

Disagree. She consented. He consented. The people around her did not consent to help those two people get off. The very fact that they’re in public tells you that it’s the public gratification they’re getting off on. And that’s not okay.

As a kinky person who’s been on precisely that end of a collar and leash, fuck off. That’s rude. Don’t do that in public. It may be consensual on her part, but this is not any different structurally than some dude jerking off on the subway—they’re getting off on the presence of innocent bystanders who have NOT…

Yeah...between his eyes and his aphasia, I wonder if perhaps he’s had a mild stroke that his team opted to hide.

The thing that's bothered me the most is actually this reaction: