I personally think there’s no unselfish reason to have children. It’s ultimately all about the parents. I love my children so much I want them to stay imaginary.

Ain’t it a blast?

Agree to disagree. The whole genre triggers my childhood trauma and gives me heartburn.

No I’m talking post Tom Nicole. Her 30s were her best decade.

This is the Nicole Kidman I love. With her original face and reddish curls.

I think it’s an inherently exploitative genre

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Yeah I feel like this author is a little naive. Why is she expecting great moral profundity from youtubers?

Chokers have been in style forever I feel like? I don’t get what about her sartorial choices is so incongruous and puzzling

What is she supposed to shop exclusively at dress barn because she’s north of 25? What are you looking for.

The complete lack of nuance and context seems very juvenile to me too. People expect immediate perfect allyship but it doesn’t exist. Everyone has blind spots. But there has to be a room to grow and atone without being totally exiled in a lot of these cases. Do some people deserve permanent banishment for their…

He sounds like a total narcissist

I know so many women that used to be interesting and now entirely condemn who they once were and become almost reactionary conservatives when they have kids. I hate it so fucking much.

Nicole Kidman did this too. I remember when Nicole Kidman was almost edgy and had red hair. 

I absolutely adore Shirley Manson. Sometimes I kind of wish she’d spill more tea though. On Instagram she falls into the “feminism means agreeing with other women all the time and never making anything approximating a meaningful critique” trap and the “everything I did when I was younger is cringey and terrible now…

I don’t think that’s true. You don’t have to be sad and try hard like Madonna but you don’t have to morph into some kind of hag or else become a housewife who is embarrassed of her “wilder years.” 

She’s a boring depressing stepford wife now. It’s like she just feminized Blake Shelton’s personality.

I just choked. Thank you for this.

I think you’d write a better advice column than this person, who clearly lacks basic information about mental health.

As someone that struggles daily with anhedonia I’m sorry this is the response.