I don’t know - I love my ring. The (modest) center diamond is my fiance’s grandmothers’ and the side diamonds (8 in total) are a collection of diamonds from his grandmother and great grandmothers. The white gold band cost less than $300. It makes me feel connected to him and his family (and it’s also very pretty.)…

It’s so crazy because CBS was responsible for the amazing Person of Interest that had three-dimensional queer and WOC leads.

I’m always vigilant. And I’m constantly calling out men for leering at women and/girls. Yet every time I do, I wonder “Is this the dude who is going to knock me out...?” but I do it anyway. The most recent time was St. Patrick’s Day in Penn Station; (on my lunch break, not participating in festivities) 3 grown ass men…

i miss midweek madness

My mother is Jewish and we were raised Jewish, and I consider myself to be Jewish (mostly culturally Jewish than Religiously, but I digress.) Everyone is always so shocked that Christmas is a big deal in my house, but Hanukkah is not. Hanukkah is not even that big of a deal to most Jews, I mean all holidays are a Big…

Why would Trevor Noah give this racist sorority girl monster more (MAINSTREAM) airtime??? I don’t understand.

I’m in my late twenties and I still call my parents Daddy and Mommy (or Ma). If i’m talking about my Dad, I will refer to him as “my dad” or “my father.” I do realize that Daddy has weird connotations, but I just can’t call him Dad - it feels off. Anyway, Papa just gives me Little House on the Prairie vibes.

I was considering an IUD because my body apparently hates every form of The Pill I’ve tried, but two OBGYNs have low key advised me (youngish woman with no kids, eventually planning to have them) not to, as it can cause permanent scarring and trouble conceiving.

My boyfriend and I have each other’s pass codes and use each other’s email accounts. It evolved from proximity/intimacy and the fact that we live together. For example, if he’s driving he’ll have me text someone back, and that requires access to his pass code. And yes, sometimes I look at his messages and emails but…

I met my boyfriend on The Grade - we live together, have a dog blah blah blah, so yeah a success. Less users which is a good thing if you live in NYC/big metropolitan area. Grading system seeks to weed out “creeps.” F users get kicked out. Tells you when a picture is old.

When my sister was a freshman in college, I went to visit her for a weekend at school (I was 23, a semi-recent graduate from the same school.) We were at a either club rugby or hockey party (same shit), waiting on line for the bathroom when my sister felt someone grab her leg, horror movie style. It wasn’t a creature…