thisrulershallrule
ThisRulerShallRule
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I’ve always had a mild interest in fashion. A love/hate thing. I like to buy clothes, I like that someone takes the time to show me a story with clothing so I can choose what I like. I hate the ageism, sexism, racism, sizeism, elitism, exclusivity, hot air. Even at my most white girl whiny stance, have you noticed

I always wonder about editors. They love to talk about change and feminism yet I see none of them employ older models. Ok, maybe plus-size is harder because samples are small. But use bigger models for the shots accompanying articles other than editorials. OR ASK FOR SOME GODDMAN CLOTHES FOR THE BIGGER GIRLS which I’m

Yeah... she just wears things to go to places.

Yup. I hate the fucking Oscars and the circle jerkoff industry all events are. Like wow, so excited to see George Clooney show up in a gifted tuxedo to talk about Meryl Street while Jessica Alba who never made a good movie wearing $500,000 of jewelry puts a hand on her heart and feigns emotion as best she can.

The fashion industry, while always superficial and vacuous, has become a caricature of itself. People become famous for wearing outfits given to them for free at fashion shows given by the same designers who gave them the free clothes. Fashion people dress up to go to the same parties with the same people and take the

Yeah, not at all different. Can’t see a single difference there.

JESUS FUCK THANK YOU FOR THAT. How many times I have uttered “It sucks that you and Jane Doe can’t see eye to eye. I love you both and you are both my friends. See you at dinner”

I dunno, maybe it’s an American thing. But I’ve never has issues like this. My best friend started dating our other good friend’s hookup at 23. They stopped speaking. I told my BFF that what she was doing was shitty and I didn’t approve but I would always love her and would remain friends with our other friend as

I think it’s the media that adds the insane narrative around it. Why shouledn’t Karlie be friends with Kendall? I’m sure Taylor still is.

How about we allow these women the same liberties that we give ourselves? Have none of you had two friends who ended their friendship and you continued on good terms with both? Da fuq is this supposed to be, some sort of dystopian future where Taylor Swift vanishes former allies and communication with them is

In many countries you can have them pierced at the hospital when they are born. that way it’s done in a sterile environment by doctors. It’s a small needle poke. no big deal. Why put earring on a baby? for the same reason you shop for cute clothes for yours. People like to adorn their kids. If you don’t shame the

Thank you!!!

Aw thank you! I read some BPD books as a teen, and a lot fits and a lot doesn’t. I am maybe losing my marriage of 16 years and it’s messy. Laers and layers of shit and mess ups and everyone knowing our business because every time I feel like hitting rock bottom it’s between showing up shaking at someone’s house or

The other afternoon for example I went to my house. I partially moved out last week and have been working hard on being healthy and whole. So I started birdwatching and went over to pick up my binoculars but my husband said to come back another day. So I drove away and started shaking and meant to leave and go to my

I don’t know if I ever did. I grew up in S. America and my parents can’t remember. Maybe yes may be no, but certainly would have never thought of taking me to a doctor if I hit my head.

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I saw this TedX a few months ago about how we never image the brain unless something seems very wrong. Often too late.

How long ago was it? Do you feel your levels of happiness are the same? Are you lonely? Asking for a friend.

Sorry to hear that. Every divorce is its own kind of hell. People often turn it into the Suffering Olympics... “at least you don’t have kids” “at least he didn’t cheat on you” “at least you kow she is a scumbag and now you’re free”... It always fucking sucks. I’ve been on the rocks for 1.5 years and now it’s become

You make it sound like 35 is ancient... You body is not much different from your 20's.

I feel like shit. How are you doing?