A black person who looks white? Sure. Alicia Keys looks white. She can decide to be white as much as she can decide to be black, which is what she did. If anything she looks italian.

Everyone on the “no shampoo” bandwagon and women who only wash their hair every week (I’ve even heard every two weeks!!!) should read this. Bodies smell. There is no hair style cute enough to hide the smell of rank scalp.

And flash peace signs because... festival?

Dude no one goes to jail fr their prescribed Xanax.  TSA has much better things to do. Don’ that it to the far end.

“having a baby is a supremely selfish act that masquerades as giving, and yes it does demand a certain extreme type of selflessness, but always in service to an extension or mirror of the self.” HOLY SHIT THIS SENTENCE IS EVERYTHING

Thank you! I am curled up in my best friend’s couch eating amazing gelato from the jar so there’s that. But there is also two flawed people going through insane pain who only leaned on each other for 15 years suddenly alone and that feels like a pain that will never subside. Like, where is this person who feels part…

Oh, you are one of the *good* white people.

No. Celeste doesn’t have a hard time admitting to abuse because she is rich and pretty. She has a hard time admitting to abuse because that is what abuse victims do.

“Their problems all stemmed from their whiteness, access, class, and privilege.” Like spousal abuse, alienation, feeling like your new husband isn’t as exciting as your old one, lack of desire, being poor in a rich town, being abandoned, having to divorce, raising a child on your own, rape... Yeah, all rich white…

“”You don’t just have to be, or have, a camel to enjoy it. There is award money for best poem (presumably about camels) and for best “abstract painting of a camel.” “

I wouldn’t call my relationship abusive - toxic probably, with some sort of emotional abuse from both sides. But when my husband gets mad at me, the silent treatment and disdained looks last forever, as does his super mean talk when I demand he talks to me. One time during a particularly long fight period after I did…

It depends on whether you like it and want it or not. It’s good that he is open about the fantasy- making it about the both of you and sharing in. On the other hand, it veers into the danger zone with the chocking until you lose consciousness. Some people just like to talk about things like these though and the chat…

A lot of people are misreading your comment, but she has made false claims before and has claimed to have been drugged by someone else several times before. Is it possible? Yes. Am I 100% convinced? No.

Ah yes, the song and dance of white corrupt men committing crimes and getting away with it. Never seen it before.

Yeah seriously. Find another cause. People enjoying employee benefits usually have to stick to company rules.

Why. Your house faces a sidewalk. It’s not covered up by fences. It is free to see from the street where one is free to gaze upon it and photograph if the fancy strikes.

Yeah, people get paranoid and even violent around cameras. I have a friend who takes photos of people on the street in their natural element and she is so good at it. Mostly doesn’t give a fuck about anything or anyone. She also has stepped on yards and driveways to take pictures of flowers or cars. At first I was…

Um... yeah... I kindly suggest you re-read the headline.

You are doing nothing wrong. People are insane about privacy these days- as if they have something to hide. You are taking a photo of a building you can see form the road. If they feel no one should be looking at their home front then build a fence.

Yeah but it’s not illegal. If you don’t want people seeing/taking photos of your home then build a fence around it or move to a city.