As someone who was abused by a prominent member of the BDSM community and deleted my social media accounts because I couldn’t handle seeing him praised as a “feminist”, I’m awed by Stoya’s bravery. I hope she gets all the support she deserves.

Agreed. It doesn't make any sense. 1 Corinthians 1 says very much the same.

So you admit its fucked up but you’re glad you have it? Okay...

Ah, good old Epicurus. If you read past and/or accept the hidden premises, it sounds like a good argument. The most glaring faulty premise is the assumption that a good God prefers a world without evil.