I know. My family has hidden important news from me because I have a history of mental illness and it makes me feel patronised and angry. In a way, being mentally ill makes you strong because you’re fighting on an almost daily basis. You have stayed alive despite wanting to die. You grow armour from that shit.

UPDATE: I told her. She was surprised but calm. Said she would confront him calmly and ask to see his phone. She was thankful that I told her. I just really hope that this isn’t a terrible thing for her now or later...

Yeah I’m leaning heavily towards all you’re saying here. I feel so bad for her if this is going to be a big shock. As if being pregnant isn’t hard enough, being bipolar just makes everything even harder. It was really good to hear from someone who’s both. Thank you!

You should tell her.

I want them both in my backyard. Surely there are enough bad works for a life-sized, bad art chess board, right?

I would! Who wants to have to hear that no one knows where Scary Lucy ultimately ended up?

Hmm. I might be in the extreme minority here, but I think telling her now would be better than waiting. You think she’s a mess of hormones now, but take postpartem hormones PLUS sleep deprivation PLUS physically recovering from birth and you have a woman who is a hot mess for quite a while once baby has arrived.…

He was appropriately apologetic and shoving money at me to replace it so he gets a pass this time.

Tbh just replace the boyfriend, that is unforgivable.

I think you’re going to have to tell her eventually but... If you feel like telling her right now would put her in a bad place maybe you should tell him that you’ve seen his profile and you know he’s on there. It might shame/frighten him into treating her better?

In summer I wear very little makeup ‘cause it won’t stay on in the Santa Fe heat, but! Just the other day there was a Kinja Deal advertising a Sephora twofer on the excellent Bite Beauty High Pigment lip pencils. So two of those are on the way! They really stay, for hours, and the colors are gorgeous. I got the…

It's a cream call Acne Scar Care from New York Biology. I'm waiting to get and I'll report if it's good.

I NEED AN UPDATE FROM THE PERSON LAST WEEK WITH THE TWO TIMIN BOYFRIEND ASSHOLE!!!! Sorry....I have been thinking about her allllllll week!

I can’t believe I’m actually awake late enough in the UK to participate in SNS for once, yay!!

That first picture is what a supermodel would look like in cat form.

I’m loving the Dr Dennis Gross Medi-Spa peel. I also want to try the daily peel, but if I use both I’ll be spending a stupid amount of money on my skin. Anyone use the daily and want to convince me it’s worth the extra hit to my bank account?

I did something new with my hair. I’m debating about keeping it like this.

The

I have a feeling this story is going to end with new Lucy having some kind of “accident” and old Lucy will be in her place.

Jennifer Garner’s career bums me out. She has played as many “harried mother” roles as she wore wigs on Alias.

... I miss Alias.