I have a friend with a bulls eye tattooed there as a joke about the whole 'tramp stamp' thing, I do think it's kinda funny, but not a joke I would want to commit to forever. To each her own I guess.

It really makes me sad to see educators with such contempt for their students.

Ew. I am so glad I am not that host; I think I might not be able to hide my disgust at that old ass man asking me if I like porn. Yeah I like porn, what of it old man? Do I want to talk about it with you, ancient fellow? No fucking way.

Just don't beat yourself up for things you couldn't control. Be strong, sharing helps!

You don't have to thank me, I'm glad to. If you ever need to talk about it, I saw someone else gave you the rape crisis number, they really helped me after it happened, or you can always reach out to us here. And do your best to ignore the trolls, obviously one has latched on to me here, but hopefully he'll get bored…

Jez has really been a savior for me too. When I have shared my rape and events of street harassment this has been the most supportive community I have found. So, seconded, I too am proud of us. I'm sorry for what you don't remember, and you don't need to feel shame for being there in the first place. It's ridiculous…

I think the phrase "pulling the ___ card" is the problem I am having. There are no cards, no race card, no rape card, and no Cherokee card. Using that phrase to describe something that a person might legitimately bring up but that some might use as leverage only makes things harder for those who have a legitimate…

"Pull the Cherokee card" I don't think it makes me an asshole pulling a 'card' to acknowledge parts of my background just because I'm white. I don't think it's ok to wear head dresses and would never think that being part Cherokee would grant me the right, so maybe you aren't talking about people like me, but how…

I'm part Cherokee, and I'm white. I don't think it makes me a d-bag to look into my background and acknowledge it with pride. I don't have a snake or smoke pot or think it's ok to wear head dresses. Just sayin'

Having any ol' guy want to be in a relationship with you is not the same as having someone you also are interested in want to be in a relationship with you. Most people who want a relationship have offers they might decline, the parenthetical part of your comment, that is the real problem. I understand why some people…

ME TOO!

I like Augustin Burroughs dating advice, don't be your best self on a first date. "you can't borrow against your future personality" if you almost never shave your legs and never brush your hair just go with that, if they dig you, great, if not, you seriously weren't going to start doing that regularly anyway.

Let's not torture ourselves over who might have tortured us... but in the meantime, I am making a list of everyone who knows where I live just in case I should go missing... I wish this was a Halloween prank by the press, it would be in horrible taste, but I just wish... I really think I might have met this guy once a…

He looks really familiar to me and it is making me freak the fuck out! I know some cops, so it's not impossible that I've seen him, but probably it's just because he looks like every fucking guy everrrrr! So paranoia inducing.

I'm bisexual and I have had friendships, (more than once and I can't even believe it) that have ended with my male friend announcing his deep everlasting love for me and insisting that I have been signaling him somehow. "I know you feel the same! I know it!!" they always say. Like maybe by dating other dudes or…

I think they ignore non heterosexual relationships because it isn't biology that causes this problem, it's the way heterosexual men and women are socialized to interact.

I've made it my hobby to explain this, and other aspects of male privilege to the men who seem to need it (when I don't feel too unsafe doing so). It's fun and sometimes they seem to get it.

The electrics are out in the common areas of my building for some reason, so it is dark as coal in the stairwell, and now I no longer think a burgler or normal murderer is hiding there, now I believe a monster of a more sinister variety may be waiting to eat me... Monsters are REAL holy crap!

I love the big ultrasound prints on the wall of the nursery! My imaginary baby is going to have a room just like that! Unless my ultrasound makes my baby look hideous or something, but I have a cute nose so I'm sure baby will too... All the bloody placenta stuff tho... that's just... unappealing.

They discuss that in the transcript on the Observer article. Co-conspiritor 1 says you would need to put her in a cage over the fire because to put her on a spit would kill her, but Valle says he was thinking of tying her to some kind of apparatus.