This whole thread is infuriating. Victim-blaming, slut-shamming, concern trolls can not be reasoned with. No one who thinks that sort of response will ever believe that they are saying anything damaging and sexist.

Yes. I wish girls would wait til they got a little older to wear the skirts so short but at the same time it is each individuals own responsibility to control themselves. Boys shouldn't leer or grope, and the implication that the skirts are the part of the problem that should be enforced rather than the leering or…

i work at a bar on 12th st and 8th ave. this is terrifying. thank goodness i never leave without my mace.

Even if you have a personal reason to dislike a flower, like some have mentioned, to respond that way right in front of someone who bothered to do something nice for you is just rude. if I were her friend, or whoever it is she said she hated the flowers to, I would have been embarrassed by her behavior. i dont care if…

You aren't a wuss to ask for drugs. At the moment I do not have children, but I was there for my best friends first child. She waited too long and regretted not going for the drugs. Some people have a higher pain threshold but there is no shame in not wanting to suffer.

I love to fill up my bathtub and fix a tropical drink. Throw in a big blue bath bomb and listen to pet sounds. When I miss the summer it's easy to pretend because the radiators are so damn hot in my apartment and i cant seem to turn them down. Then again, i also miss my leather jacket and my sweaters. I'm looking…

Dont use it as a lube for penetration, it's really meant for your clit, its too expensive to use like a regular lube, but yes, better than the other warming/tingling/cooling whatever stuff. Its a nice little booster for your hot button. ;)

I know that if I dress up, its for me, and for my friends, not for guys. That said, it was stated in the article that part of the problem is guys /not/ dressing up, which seems... unfair. If I didn't feel like dressing up or I did feel like it, it's not a feminist statement, its what i wore, that's all. It seems…

I tried it, works well enough solo. Guess I'll wait til the commercial airs to restock...

I agree. Is this really such a problem? I love kids, even as a bartender, I don't mind having kids come in during brunch hour. As long as it isn't dark yet it's no big deal. That said, the list of people who don't want to meet your baby, bartenders should be at the top of that list. If you must bring your baby to a…

Yeah, I'm also not convinced this is about all women, maybe its about people who are loud in restaurants.

I always wore padded bras. I still do. I have always had a larger than average chest, and i feel more comfortable in a bra with padding. Its not the push-up factor for me, it's the support factor and the fact that in a padded bra you can be sure your nipples wont be visible regardless of temperature. No, that is not…

I am in the same boat; I stopped eating meat in the 4th grade and now as an adult become very very ill if someone sneaks it to me. I also am not allergic to peanuts but they trigger severe migraines.

I dislike when people who dont really have a problem are forced into treatment or AA. I feel like it is undermining to the recovery process of others who really want or need help. When I was 21 I got into a fight, (it was more of an ass-kicking by a guy twice my size but there were no witnesses and it was my word…

I feel the same way! I cannot imagine my mother and I posing this way when I was 8.. then again, my mother wouldn't be in a bikini in a photo let alone topless with or without me. She is a lovely woman, but she is not Kate Moss.