No one said that but wow you guys are really bolstering the faith we have in your asshole gender by pushing this bening comment farther.

If you are footing the fucking bill, you can request that your friend not fuck up an important event.

Google.com.

Shootings OR OTHER TRAUMA. There, is that better for you?

12 and 16 is still a lot different. 12 and 18 is nowhere near the same as 16 and 18.

“Is it okay if my husband isn’t at our wedding?”

You are turning YOUR nose up at her!! You’re doing the same shit and acting like you smell of roses. Fuck.

“At this point, her pain doesn’t even concern me.”

You’re an asshole.

“Hey, can you not get shitfaced and fuck shit up at my wedding?” does not seem like an unreasonable request.

No, you need a therapist and no drugs to learn how to grow the fuck up.

*She’s* self-centered by asking you not get drunk at her wedding, and you’re the one here asking a board full of strangers when you should leave her wedding to create maximum eyes-on-you drama? Yeah, okay. Your friends aren’t obligated to help you when your life is spiraling out of control. You are responsible for…

What are you, 16? Don’t go to this wedding. This lady deserves better people in her life than you.

So they were on the job and refused to work because of black people made them mad. Sounds like regular policing to me.

So they were hired to do a job that they then refused to do because some black women said something they disagreed with? Sounds like what they do on their day job, too.