exactly. so what a person finds physically attractive is? fluid. or flexible. or almost-always more complicated than "i just don't like fat chicks, ok, leave me alone." when you hear "no fatties" either you have encountered a rare unicorn, or, much more likely, they are just spewing back social expectations and not…

this clip and article is exactly about that blurry, socially-decided categories of fat and non-fat, and how "fat" is judged externally, and how many men make their relationship decisions with THAT in mind, NOT as an honestly-arrived-at personal preference. that IS a thing. that men who you know what, do like a soft…

because, as i already explained, "fat chick" is not a body type. a short, pear-shape is a body type that one may prefer or not prefer. tall and broad-shouldered is a body type. "no fat chicks" is a meaningless social construct. if anyone lists all the body types they happen to not find attractive, and it is COMPLETELY…

but the vast majority of 2s have decided that because of external forces, it is not a genuinely, honest, introspective decision. you know how i know? because "fat women" is not a thing. what do you mean? tall witha big ass?, broad-shouldered apple-shaped women? short and pear-shaped with small tits? any person who is…

or just being able to admit to yourself who you are truly attracted to, and not deciding that based on external forces.

if height-for-dudes was totally equal to fat-for-chicks, this would be (delightfully) a reality:

and those are the SAME guys who say "why can't women ask MEN out?" because we haaave, brother. we're called FAT CHICKS and we go out on limbs and get rejected by the likes of you ALLATIME. you meant to say, "why can't a stripper ask me out for once? i keep asking out strippers and they keep saying no, no fair."

you don't prefer non-blonds because society has told you and everyone else that blond guys are inferior and that every woman really wants a redhead and you're obviously settling or defective because you can't attract a redhead.

in a perfect world, yes, no one should be shamed for having a body type preference. but the world isn't perfect. only a tiny percentage of people who claim they prefer non-fat bodies (what does that even mean), are not making that decision in a vacuum. as this illustrates, it's much more often NOT about physical…

no one wants to watch Protagonist Who Achieves Goal Despite Parents' Unwavering Support. that is not a story.

should should should should should

your abortion should be decided and executed privately. part of being pro-choice is not trying to choose how other women decide OR how they feel about their decisions.

Encore, encore!

You're hilarious.

Brava! Bravissima. I wish I had an applause gif.

yelp, tripadvisor. use all the tools at your disposal. that is MUCH more powerful than no tip or a small tip. a bad server gets a small tip they think YOU are the jerk and just move on, and are in a worse mood, so are probably be even worse. if you tell the management, especially in a public forum, you get real…

the first lady's dress is amazing. these appliques? oh yes.

personally i think it should just be salaried. if the newbie waiter forgets something or spills something, he should be getting paid less than the seasoned super-star pro to begin with. it's not up to the client to decide that, or how much. if i screw up at work, i get a performance review or a note in my file which…

i think that's people's main issue with the unfairness of tipping. the thing you pay for, should include service. it shouldn't be up to you to decide what part of the experience you pay for. the guy at the Gap goes and gets your shirt sizes for you, folds stuff, and rings you up, that's his job. the guy at the Verizon…

but. moons over my hammy.