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I get that it’s your colleague and it sounds like a work trip, but it’s totally legit to say “Hey colleague, this is our night of catching up. Happy to get dinner with you tomorrow night and maybe friend can join. I’ll see you at breakfast tomorrow.”

These racist fucks. Can we just call this what it is? It’s genocide by pinprick, person by person, perpetuated by millions of individuals.

I got #COTD once and I felt like I had won a prestigious award.

I fucking love bikinis. I’m 48, short, fat and 100% do not care. I bought my first true bikini this year and I’m never going back. Absolutely the most comfortable swimwear ever, and I look bomb in it. I’ve finally embraced that I’m not being anything (including fat) at people, so if someone doesn’t like it, not my

I swear by steaming eggs. 10 minutes in a steamer, shock in cold water and peel when room temperature. The shells slip off. But I’ll definitely try the container/water method for peeling because I hate peeling eggs.

You do you! I hate heels and I’m barely five feet tall. I refuse to wear them because they hurt so much. Plus I blew out my knee in 2007 and deconditioned my heel-wearing capabilities. But I wish I could wear them occasionally, because they look so fucking good

Agree! I’m barely 5' and I prefer shorter men. 5'9" and under is perfect. Plus tall men take up way too much space in my bed.

I’m struggling too. I had a stroke a few weeks ago (tiny) and one of the side effects is depression. I’ve worked so, so long to take care of my emotional health. Years of therapy and changing behaviors and digging to the core of all my triggers. I’m feeling a shitload of cognitive dissonance. I know what it is. I know

I loved him too. I was a cook for a hot minute and have always stayed in touch with my friend from that world. No one ever had anything bad to say about him. No woman ever warned me off him, should we ever meet. He was universally like and loved by so many.

Because sometimes you’ve been in so much emotional pain for so long you just want it to stop. If you haven’t had depression, it’s hard to understand.

Since when is it free thinking to spout ignorant, uneducated opinions and posit them as facts?

All these “free-thinkers” are bullshit Ayn fanboys, most of whom have never read her (not that they’re missing anything.) 

Dick. It smells like unwashed rancid balls and dick. We call them Dick Trees, which has now become shorthand for anything that smells so foul you have to back up 10 feet.

I went to a TedX panel tonight and called out one of the panelists for some racist crap and after, at least a dozen people (also white women) thanked me for “saying what everyone was thinking.” If EVERYONE was thinking it, you’d think more than one person would say something.

You’re right. It’s not about me. As many others have repeatedly stated, the point is for the girls to set goals, meet them and feel proud of their achievements, make friends, build a community and create a feeling of normalcy. This isn’t a zero sum equation. One can see there’s a bigger issue at hand, but still

Leave trolling to the big boys, junior.

The girls asked to do this. How about focusing on giving these girls a chance to be kids. They’re becoming a community, they’re making friendships that may last a lifetime and they’re Doing something they feel proud about. I agree that there are some issues with the way the transfer of money is structured, but this is

Lol not so stupid I don’t see the troll. Byeeeeeeee

Ok then :)

You won’t get an argument from me. Blinded by privilege = stupid.