The short answer is, there’s nothing you can do. You can’t fix him. Is your partner getting help for his depression? Is he actively trying to get better? Because if he is, you have to let him do things at his own pace. If he’s not, that’s a more complex issue.

Yes. I was flying from London back to New York and the flight was overbooked. I was no in hurry to get back to the states so offered to get bumped and fly out the next day. The gate agent booked me into first class on the next flight, gave me access to the first class lounge and a 300£ voucher. I will love British Air…

I had some pretty disordered eating (if not a full eating disorder) for years and it makes me crazy when anyone comments on my food choices (I’M LOOKING AT YOU MOM AND DAD), so I really try hard to keep it to myself. But Orthorexia is real, and it’s insidious because it’s a cover for “healthy eating.” It raises my…

I mean...good for her if this is working for her. But it seems pretty freaking disordered to me. I mean...none of this stuff is delicious, maybe with the exception of the zucchini noodles.

I just rewatched Dogma. It made me really sad because I loved it when I first saw it, and now I realize it’s actually terrible. I dunno. Maybe it just hasn’t aged well. Or maybe I’ve aged out of it.

Duncan is 44. She is 15. 18 years old is not old enough to handle a large fortune, and I’m sure she won’t be living rough until 25.

As much as I personally agree with you, a lot of people are super uncomfortable talking on the phone. I much prefer talking over texting, but that’s after I meet someone, and I’m an old. That first cold call with someone you’ve never met before can be super awkward and weird. And if it’s not - if it’s a great call,…

Good lord, have a little compassion. Yes it was stupid thing to do, but we’ve all done really stupid things. You don’t deserve to die for it. I lived in very cold climates for years. I don’t care how much of a mess someone was—you didn’t let people stumble out in dangerous weather. If she was such a wreck, her friends…

I haven’t gotten rashes or blisters, but it chaps the hell out of my lips. I don’t know how that happens with a supposedly moisturizing lip balm, but it does, and it’s utter crap. And I don’t have super-sensitive skin.

Hot Irish Breakfast tea, with homemade caramel sauce and a teeny splash of brandy. It’s pretty freaking awesome.

Best. Review. Ever.

I’ve been steaming eggs for years. It is a game-changer. Incredibly easy to cook and peel, and always perfectly done. I cook mine 10 minutes then drop in an ice bath and get a perfect yolk that is still a tiny bit soft in the very center.

That’s what full-out faded looks like when you’re middle-aged.

John Mayer, definitely. There’s got to be a reason he’s pulling so many women. Jeremy Piven is an easy kill.

For you and your facebook feed.

This is the best scratching post ever. My cats love it and there's a little perch you can add to the top.

This is the best scratching post ever. My cats love it and there's a little perch you can add to the top.

You don’t get what “silent work” is. Silent work isn’t work that you don’t talk about. It’s work that’s not recognized or acknowledged as work. Work that can be outsourced to a handyman or a mechanic is not remotely equivalent to managing the emotional health, wellness, activities and calendars of everyone in the…

Because men don’t see the emotional work. Women are socialized from birth to recognize and respond to it. Men are not. The effort to bring men up to speed is exhausting. You talk and talk and talk until you’re blue in the face, hoping for one *aha* moment, and when it happens, they expect a freaking trophy because…

I love coffee, but can’t handle that much caffeine. I’d love a decaf pop-up shop so I could find some great beans, and have a few delicious drinks. Decaf coffee is a crap-shoot. Most of it is straight up terrible, and I can never get the kinds of beans I like. So yeah. I’m on it. There are a bajillion places where you…

My friend and I cheered and clapped like we were watching a gladiator show when he went over the ledge. There’s nothing I enjoy more than seeing a douchebag meet his end. Because come on, you know if he lived, he was going to fuck it up, again. Layla dodged a bullet.