I am also obsessed with Diva. I made all my friends watch it in college and they mocked me. Philistines.

I've been to Valdosta. I was a kid, on a family road trip to Florida, and we stopped at a restaurant called Ma Groover's Pig & Plate. It was Sunday, we got there shortly before the church crowd, and got some seriously disapproving looks at our disheveled, been driving for hours appearance. But god damn if that wasn't…

Same here. I never do the sexy talk with a guy I've never met. I have no idea if I'm going to want to sex him up, but the minute you start up, they assume it's a done deal. Which is suuuuper uncomfortable if there's no chemistry.

*Sigh* I know. It really sucks. As a single 40-something, it doesn't matter what I say or do. People assume I'm hitting on every man I talk to.

You make a good point.

Of course, though, I'll only ask if some sort of personal connection seems to have been made, and I'm really interested in meeting this person, and possibly having sexy funtimes in the future.

It's #1. Once you're married, women assume there's a level of safety in interacting with you. We (I mean not all of us, but definitely me and a lot of other women I know) feel more comfortable joking around and acting more casually friendly. That friendliness is OFTEN interpreted as hitting on you, but most of the…

A female what? Oh...you mean a female human? Like...a woman? Well maybe that's your problem right there.

Not desparate. Just lazy. It is pathetic.

This is why I fucking hate "FWB." Not that such a thing doesn't exist, but there needs to be a friendship for there to be any benefits. If someone just wants a casual relationship, then say you want a casual relationship. But some rando asking FWB? is going to get shut down immediately because...no...I'm not your…

Count your blessings. I have to be so careful with how much I smoke.

I can totally believe it. I wish I could say I'm surprised but I'm not.

I think that's the idea. Black children are getting shot down in the street. Of course it should be disturbing.

Ugh. Fuck that guy. He's not doing it for fat acceptance, body positivity, or normalization of a wide range of body types. As usual, it's all about what some dude's dick likes.

I highly doubt she feels like she needs to things to stay in the public eye. I think she wants to do them because it's fun, she's young, and she can. If you're not going to get crazy when you're 22 and had a life of disneyfication under your belt, when would you? Girlfriend isn't hurting for money or industry…

Fuck this. Jews should know better. JEWS SHOULD ALWAYS KNOW BETTER. God damn this just pisses me off and disappoints me so, so much.

Azealia...girl...no. You are not allowed to define what a slur means unless you are the object of that slur. And even then, it's a slippery slope. Please stop.

Well...I mean I guess it depends on what you consider midwestern. Most people in the states don't think I have any kind of recognizable accent. I hear Chicago sneak in because I've been here for so long and can tell it's changed over time. But yes, based on my experience, people like it. Of course, it could be my…

Och, aye? He is a fine specimen.

I'm rather partial to a lovely Scottish accent myself, although I have had many non-Americans tell me how lovely/charming my accent is. Which...what? Mostly flat broadcaster with a touch of Chicago sass. So no accounting for taste, that's for sure.