I get you Amanda. I'm the same way. There's either sparks from there start or not. The vagina wants what it wants and doesn't want what it doesn't want, no matter how great a guy is otherwise.

I live in a big, liberal city. A lot of guys are smart enough to keep it under wraps for awhile.

MRA anything. "Men have it harder than women these days." "Men totally get screwed in divorces." "Women have it easier because boobs."

I'll join you for this birthright trip.

I've talked to my landlord several times. It's set in stone. While I would LOVE a dog, I do have two lovely, sweet kitties who are excellent companions. I'm not so lonely that I need a service animal. I do, however, really appreciate your concern. You are very kind and thoughtful.

Oh god...I don't know if I'm ready to get on stage again. I do want to take acting classes, though.

Oooh...that would be rough. I'm pretty introverted too, so that would not work so well for me.

Lol. Musicals are fun, and I did a ton of them as a kid (of course), but I'm more a fan of Serious Theatre. But honestly, it doesn't even matter. I'm not looking to find someone to date through this. I just want to have fun again and get involved in something.

LOL! I do take medication for anxiety, but it's only at night, and it's in very small doses. Otherwise, I get tranquilized and stupid.

I'll check that out! Thanks!

It was totally worth a shot. I'm crazy about dogs. I've wanted one since I was conscious that dogs existed. I am the nutty neighborhood lady who has to pet ALL THE DOGS. I've done a ton of volunteer work with various rescue groups, and I want a dog so much. One of these days I'll get a cute little companion, and it…

Thank you.

The more dudes I meet, and the more men I date, the more I realize that I don't much care about romance right now, and what I really, REALLY want is friends.

I actually LOVE theatre. It is, and always has been, an abiding passion. I was a total drama nerd and grew up in the theatre. I have a ton of contacts, and I don't know why I haven't reached out to them. Probably fear or something. I'm going to do that. Thanks!

Lol...I know. I could be in a relationship right now if I wanted. I'm not concerned about that. I'm really more interested in making friends. Real friends are much harder to find than men.

"I AM HERE BEING SOCIAL LET US BE SOCIAL AT EACH OTHER NOW CAN WE BE FRIENDS PLEEZ?"

It's really hard when you're trying to meet people, no matter what you're looking for. Honestly, I'm way more interested in meeting new friends than dating. I know I posted about a waste of a pushup bra, but generally, I don't have much trouble finding men.

I actually date a pretty good amount - at least a few dates a month. Men are plentiful, though. Good friends aren't.

I would love a dog, but my building doesn't allow them. I'm not in a position to move, plus I have cheap(ish) rent, a great location and a very nice space.

I do some things, but I'm not really into groups, and there are very few group activities I enjoy. Kind of the whole point of this is that I don't really do well in group situations, even when there's a common interest.