I'm not surprised. This was also 20 years ago, so I'm sure things have changed since then.

I love Larry & Luna's! If I didn't have to watch my sugar intake, I'd eat it all the time. The flavors are fantastic, and it's also really filling. One actual serving size, and I'm good.

I like purely decadent a lot, but I don't eat sugar, and I'm supposed to avoid most soy product. They have one flavor that's vanilla, with caramel and fudge swirls, and chocolate covered nutty bits. It's sooo delicious. I'm down with the peanut butter zig-zag too, though.

I didn't notice a coconut flavor, but I love coconut, so it's possible I'm so used to it that it didn't register.

I love his smooshy face. I am so jealous of your new doggy love.

You just dodged the hugest fucking bullet. YAY!!!!

I'm the same way, and that's a really good way to put it. I'm going to start doing that, and reminding myself if I don't, I'm going to end up bolting anyways.

I got this "ice cream" today and it's really good! It had a tiny bit of that weird stevia aftertaste, but not enough to scare me off (and I generally hate stevia.) The chocolate flavor was very strong, it's not too sweet, and it's really creamy. I had a bowl with toasted almonds and fresh blueberries. I think I'm…

Steel Magnolias. Sally Field's character has a very refined southern accent.

Back when I worked in London, I was looked at askance when I didn't drink at the pub during lunch.

Lol. True. But I'm usually horny as hell and game, so it's not like I'm getting into anything I don't want to do, and I don't feel used. It's more that once I have it, unless I'm SUPER into the guy, I don't know what to do with it, and then I feel guilty for playing with people's feelings, even though it's not…

It is like a drug. I'm not particularly shy, and I usually meet men when I go out, but I don't go out a lot. I'm on a tight budget, and I'm older, so it's harder to meet single guys in my age range at any old place. I'm also introverted, so if I'm going out, it's to actually do something, not going out just to go out.

I think it's the norm with most people on that site.

I stopped because I realized my boundaries are crap once I'm sexually involved with someone. Once there's sex, I get too emotionally involved too fast. I'm highly empathic and start feeling like I'm responsible for their feelings, which makes me feel stuck, and then I freak out, and bolt. It's WAY too much stress and…

I think what you're going through, with just getting back on the dating scene is very common. I took a couple years off of dating because I had a lot of emotional dysfunction to resolve. I sorted a lot out, and decided I wanted to start dating again. I went out a lot over a few months, got involved with a few guys,…

I'm going through a little OKC withdrawal. I'm taking a break, because...well...for a few reasons. But man, that external validation is like a drug. And the site was always there when I was bored and looking for entertainment.

Move on. The guy is damaged and needs some recovery time before he'll be in any condition to be in a relationship. Do you really want that? And no...unfortunately, most people don't text or call to end it when it's that new. I just ended it with someone after we had been seeing each other for a short time, and he was…

I often ask for poached eggs. I don't think it's a big deal. I also always ask for extra napkins, because they no-one ever drains the eggs enough, so I do it myself...lol.

You're welcome! I am so impressed that you stopped him and got the fuck out of there. I hope none of what anyone is saying here comes off as victim-blaming. What happened was Not Your Fault. What he did was criminal assault and battery. You did an amazing job of getting out of a very dangerous situation, and I hope…

I'm not down with fasting. I get really sick when my blood sugar drops.